MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)
Dating can be tricky, but help is here. Explore real advice and lessons shared by fellow members to make your experience safer and more fun.
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Long distance relationships - three things help you be successfulMany people on this site tend to shy away from long-distance dating, but long-distance dating can be successful. The key is to go into a long-distance relationship with t ... For detail, click here.
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Safety tips traveling while in a long distance relationshipSometimes dating in your remote area can be a challenge. Thus looking beyond your residential area becomes a plausible option. Long distance dating has a plethora of pro's an ... For detail, click here.
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Limit alcohol consumption period: yes, alcohol is fun some timesIf you are dating and accept a date, here are 5 tips: 1. Keep your loved ones in the loop: Let at least two people know where and when you'll be at a location. If you have ... For detail, click here.
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Subtle techniques to attract attention and interest (offline)It's easy enough to sound like an amazing person over what I call "safety net channels" such as email, texting, phone calls, etc. After all, there is no face-to-face factor ... For detail, click here.
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Meeting in person for the first timeUse your own transportation and choose a suitable public location where other people are present. Be sure to tell someone where you're meeting and at what time yo ... For detail, click here.
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It's not worth the stress and risk of meeting you until she is satisfied you are an honest normal guy not hiding anythingEven though every individual and every couple are unique, as a woman, I'd like to share some tips that may apply to quite a lot of your interactions with women. A lovely man ... For detail, click here.
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Don't be naive or gullibleAlways be smart and safe about dating especially in the beginning. I know people love tradition, but I recommend meeting up in a public place instead of having your date ... For detail, click here.
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Don't get connedI wanted to pass on some advice to other woman exploring the on-line dating field: Last year a man contacted me through a dating site I had joined. I liked his profile/pics ... For detail, click here.
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How to determine if he's Mr.Right while dating online?I have been a member of MM for almost four years now, I have traveled to meet men in person from California to NYC. My first advise is to google the guy, if he is a ... For detail, click here.
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Love online - take it slow, reserve feelings until you meet.You have been chatting with a prospective partner for two weeks. Same Interests? Check. Conversation is flowing? Check. Butterflies in the stomach when you chat? Check. ... For detail, click here.
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Watch for discrepanciesI've encountered lots of fakes, scammers, and game players on dating sites. There are obvious things to look for like asking for money early on, but the fakes and game pl ... For detail, click here.
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3 Photos every profile must haveLike all online daters, I look at photos on profiles which interest me and I have found that even though someone can have several photos, having the wrong kind of photos ... For detail, click here.
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Don't compare past relationships with your dateDating and relationships are chock-full of lessons, experiences, intimacy, and interpersonal exchanges. Whether two people make arrangements to go on a first date or are ... For detail, click here.
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Show, don't tell... (don't make me-scream)We have all read them! The profiles constructed like recipes: endless lists of qualities, interests and wants from which our only respite is the not to infrequent. Profil ... For detail, click here.
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Complete or complement? Get you together first.Far too often, we hear, "So-and-so completes me," "I'm looking for someone to complete me," "I'm looking for my other/better half," and things of that nature. However, ta ... For detail, click here.
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Getting to know someone; learn to recognize the wrong behaviorWhen you are getting to know someone online or thinking of meeting them there is one thing above the normal safety tips that people do not think of. If the person you ... For detail, click here.
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How to avoid scammersBeware of people that say they have a high education degree but then cannot spell or do not use correct grammar. (I had one who contacted me claiming to have a Master's ... For detail, click here.
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How to spot a scammer by the way he typesScammers are oftentimes located in other countries and English is not their first language. Here are a few mistakes these scammers always seem to make. 1. Starting a sentence ... For detail, click here.
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Personal experience on identifying scammersI have been on dating sites for several years and can pick out a scammer with their first email. 1. They are handsome, not their real picture. 2. They want t ... For detail, click here.
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Tips for spotting scammersScammers will target date sites for vulnerable lonely people and also target any harvested email they cam. 1. Be assured anyone who immediately leaves their email a ... For detail, click here.