MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)
Dating can be tricky, but help is here. Explore real advice and lessons shared by fellow members to make your experience safer and more fun.
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Take some actions to avoid things that trigger sadness and reinforce things that produce joyYou are feeling love sick and want to get better? So you are a single again and want to feel better and stop feeling miserable. Give yourself time to grief about the relations ... For detail, click here.
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What lessons are learned from "boyfriends past"?Let's have some fun today and play a game of multipal choice. Complete this sentence: "If I ran into my ex boyfriend, (fill in his name), I would: a) run the othe ... For detail, click here.
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Date follow-up is really a requirement for every dateWell you've survived the fearful first date, now what? Well now is when it really all begins. Perhaps you had a great time and you believe you've found a match. Or you ... For detail, click here.
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Don't create illusionsIf your first date is absolutely amazing, that's fantastic! After the first date, honestly think about both pros and cons and structure the second date to better understa ... For detail, click here.
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Don't play games - let her know you're interested when you decide you are!The 3 day rule should be broken, and taken out of play. If you had a good time with a woman, let her know! Who knows, maybe some other guy is going to sweep her off her f ... For detail, click here.
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Show your appreciationIf you had a good first date with someone, don't hesitate to call them, just to say, "I had a wonderful time and I look forward to spending time with you, again." A ... For detail, click here.
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Tell a person you're not interested instead of simply ignoring themIt has been my experience (often) that after emailing and/or talking with other members, they tend to fall off the planet and never respond or call/write again. It shows ... For detail, click here.
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How do I know when someone wants to make a commitment?If no one has asked the question, "Will you be committed to me?" and the other person has not responded, "Yes!" Then there should be no expectation of commitment even if ... For detail, click here.
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How to meet someone to share a long term relationship with online?If your intention on this site is to meet someone to share a long term relationship with, it's important to spend some time talking via email before you move things forwa ... For detail, click here.
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Be approachable and not over informativeThe belief that it's important to be approachable when communicating with potential mates streams strictly from experience. 1. Get a feel for your date's outlooks. Ask quest ... For detail, click here.
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Better in person than in written word - don't read into something that's not thereSometimes it's hard to know what someone's saying, especially in just a few words. I can talk to anyone, and I have done a bit of copywriting in my life, so I know how to rea ... For detail, click here.
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Enjoy silenceDating always hold a little bit of awkwardness, we are after all meeting someone who is on one hand a complete stranger yet at the same time we are evaluating the possibi ... For detail, click here.
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If you say you're going to call, make sure you doOK, Guys... you may think you know how to communicate with women, and some of you are wonderful at it. Others not so much. To start with ... If you tell a woman yo ... For detail, click here.
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3 Tips for the first messageWe all know about the daunting task of first introductions. The butterflies in the stomach. It's unnerving. We want to make a good first impression; one that is unique an ... For detail, click here.
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3 Tips to talk with ladies1. Watch the details in photos Concentrate on what is in the photos, because you can find out interests, favorite places, favorite food etc. You can also see various ... For detail, click here.
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Don't include any spelling or grammar errors in your emailNothing is worse than checking the E-mail inbox only to find another message from an "intelegent" person who spelled every other word incorrectly. Your spelling and ... For detail, click here.
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Don't sabotage the possibilities by rushing to ask qualifying questionsImagine that a conversation online is not unlike one that might be struck up while attending a party, with folks surrounding you that you are meeting for the first time. ... For detail, click here.
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To text or not to text? An email is better!Text etiquette is just as important as email or chat etiquette. When you are just beginning to get to know someone, what you decide to text can either make or break the deal ... For detail, click here.
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Use your voice when you writeThe important thing to remember is that any good relationship, whether it's a potential relationship or one already in full swing, is that chemistry is key. Sitting ... For detail, click here.
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Write something personal when writing an email to a potential dateWhen writing an email to a potential date, don't just do a generic copy and paste job eg 'Hi, I saw your profile, you look nice. Anyway a little about me, I like waterspo ... For detail, click here.