MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)
Dating can be tricky, but help is here. Explore real advice and lessons shared by fellow members to make your experience safer and more fun.
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3 Photos every profile must haveLike all online daters, I look at photos on profiles which interest me and I have found that even though someone can have several photos, having the wrong kind of photos ... For detail, click here.
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5 Tips to take a good photoMy biggest issue with profiles on dating sites is the pictures people use. What drives me into confusion, is the choices some people make for photos to represent themselv ... For detail, click here.
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6 Types of profile pictures get the wrong attentionThis is a suggestion of what kind of photos get the wrong attention. 1. Shirtless Photos - it instantly say you are very into yourself and looks are most import ... For detail, click here.
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A glamour shot is the kiss of deathLadies: Posting a Glamour Shot or professional photo which required heavy amounts of makeup is an instant turn-off. Gentlemen: Posting photos of your high school heyday ... For detail, click here.
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Attraction and honesty are big componentsWhen selecting a photo for a dating site such as this, be sure to choose a photo that is honestly representative of what you look like on a daily basis. Nothing can spell ... For detail, click here.
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Casting yourself in the starring role!I have been in the entertainment business for many years, and if there is ONE specific thing that rises to the level of an absolute imperative, it is having good head sho ... For detail, click here.
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Correct angle for taking a great photoI am a pro photographer and one of the biggest mistakes people make is choosing the wrong angle. So here are a few tips: 1. If you have got double chin (full time o ... For detail, click here.
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Don't ask for more photos at the beginningAsking a woman for "more photos" is a dead give away that you are only interested in her for her looks. It is considered shallow and rude, especially if she has photos al ... For detail, click here.
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Don't be afraid to shineDon't be afraid to have pictures that show off who you are. I've noticed a lot of women on here fall into the habit of only having close-up pictures of their face and not ... For detail, click here.
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Don't judge as we have asked others not to judge usEveryone who places a picture on this site is going to find the one that is the most flattering. This is not to say that anyone is deceiving but it is a natural instinct ... For detail, click here.
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Don't post photos with attractive women for menI have noticed that a lot of men will post pictures of themselves being hugged, kissed or cuddled by attractive women. From a woman's perspective it makes you look ... For detail, click here.
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Don't post photos with surrounding environmentI've noticed that alot of people have a tendency of posting a picture to their profiles with things such as house numbers or street signs in the background, These are thi ... For detail, click here.
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Don't post pictures of your many recreational vehiclesTo find a quality relationship try to avoid posting pictures of your many recreational vehicles (especially if you're not in the picture). It's a nice plus that you have ... For detail, click here.
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For men: how to select the best profile photos1. Smile! A smile is welcoming and invites someone in. 2. Include a picture without sunglasses. We want to see your eyes. 3. Have a close up. Far away photos coul ... For detail, click here.
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How to post picturesThere should be "how to" on posting pictures on all dating websites. Okay, nearly all - I'm sure that some of the swinger websites are an anything goes kind of atmospher ... For detail, click here.
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How to turn off a potential date with a photoThere are many ways to make a fatal mistake with first impressions based on a photo: 1. Blurry image - it is important to be able to see the person's pic! if someon ... For detail, click here.
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Image aesthetics, content and curation are the most important factors for your profile photosAside from looks, image aesthetics (separate topic), content and curation are the most important factors when selecting images for your dating profile. Things to consider r ... For detail, click here.
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It's ok if your photos look like a selfie or they aren't perfect. Pictures of you living real life are great and show who you really areI have discovered on many dating sites that if the photos of a guy are really great photos, and he's quite handsome, he may not actually be a real person. When the photos loo ... For detail, click here.
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Mention how long ago the photo was taken and people will trust you moreIt is important to demonstrate that you are honest. Sometimes our best pictures are not the most recent ones. If putting a picture on here that is more than a couple of w ... For detail, click here.
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Photo advice from a photographerI always recommend having more than one or two photos on a dating site. It can show versatility in your personality and express your interests in more of a complete way. ... For detail, click here.