How to Fill Out a Great Profile on a Senior Dating Site?

Nov 15, 2022

Writing your profile on a senior dating site can feel like a difficult job. How do you condense all your life experiences and personality into a couple of sentences? Can you do that in a way that will interest and attract prospective partners, especially if you have been out of the dating scene for decades?

Don’t worry, help is at hand. Check out our tips on how to fill out a great profile on a senior dating site. Let’s get started!

Tip 1: Identify Your Ideal Match

Decide what type of person you would like to meet. Make a list of characteristics and shared interests that are important to you. If you have been off the dating scene since your 20s and 30s, you have probably moved on from who you were typically attracted to since then. Imagine the person you’d like to share time with today before you write your bio. It will help you focus on what to say if you know the type of person you wish to attract.

Tip 2: Keep It Short and Add Some Mystery

Keep your bio short and rein in the temptation to tell the world everything!  Nobody wants to read through pages of facts and achievements – it's not a job interview!  Instead, think of a phrase that sums up who you are right now. You only have one chance to make a good first impression, so take some time and make it a good one.  

Tip 3: Make Your Profile Stand Out

Many people fall into the trap of making a list of interests and posting this on their bio. As so many would-be daters do this, it can be hard to stand out. Instead, write as if you were talking to a friend and write about special preferences you may have.

One great example we have seen was short and to the point: “I’m 52, and I still love to go out, exercise, drive my car too fast, and play my rock n’ roll too loud.”

This covers four interests in one hit and is far more interesting than a list.

Tip 4: One Picture is Worth a Thousand Words

It can be tempting to choose old photos, but never do this as it creates a false impression of who you are now. Instead, use a current solo photo as your leading image and add others to reflect your lifestyle.  

Your pictures could include hanging out with friends or engaging in an interest you like. For example, if you like hiking and mention it in your bio, a picture of you hiking in a lovely or exotic location would be great. If you have a pet, always include a picture of you with your furry friend. According to senior dating site statistics, profile pictures that include animals always attract more attention than those that don’t.  

Tip 5: Make What You Want Very Clear

Are you looking for friendship, a casual date, or are you looking for a relationship? According to a survey carried out by Time magazine, using the word relationship in a dating bio leads to a 16% higher chance of success in finding one. So make it clear from the get-go if this is your intention. Senior dating is not the same as dating in your 20s and 30s when everyone plays it cool. Being upfront saves time and cuts to the chase.

Tip 6: Keep It Light and Amusing

Dating is supposed to be fun, so keeping things light and displaying your sense of humor will show prospective daters that spending time with you will be an enjoyable experience.

Tip 7: Be Proud of Who You Are

There’s someone out there for everyone,  but sometimes it can be hard to make a good impression, especially if you are naturally shy or introverted. Never apologize for yourself and confidently stand tall. Confidence is attractive, and even if you don’t feel confident, never apologize for your profile or for any shortcomings you feel you have when compared to other people. You are you and that is enough for anyone. Just go out there and get them!

Tip 8: Finish Your Profile with a Call to Action

Your call to action should encourage prospective daters to email you. Making it flirty and friendly will encourage them to contact you. After all, they may be nervous and new to this too!

Tip 9: Check Your Profile Over Before Posting It

Before you upload your profile, make sure your spelling and grammar are correct. This might not seem important, but it does have a negative effect on potential partners and can easily be avoided.

In addition, it is a good idea to show your profile to a trusted friend in order to get some feedback. Is it too flirty, too timid, or too boastful? A trusted friend who knows you well will be able to help you refine your profile in order to create a good impression.