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Maxxxxxx

Nottingham, NGM, GBR

The sun sets over the ocean, painting the sky in hues of pink and gold as we arrive at The Coastal Haven, a cozy restaurant perched along the shore. The air carries the scent of salt and fresh seafood, and the soft hum of waves sets a perfect backdrop. You step inside, your smile radiant, and my heart skips as our eyes meet. We’re seated by a window, candles flickering, the view of the beach glowing under twilight.We share oysters and creamy chowder, laughing over a crisp white wine. Conversation flows effortlessly—your witty stories, my playful retorts, and moments of quiet connection that say more than words. Dessert, a warm peach cobbler, sparks playful spoon battles, our laughter drawing smiles from nearby tables.As night falls, we step onto the beach, shoes off, sand cool underfoot. The moon lights a silver path across the water, and we walk hand in hand, waves teasing our toes. You point out stars, and I tease you about made-up constellations, earning a playful nudge. Sitting on driftwood, we share dreams—big and small—your voice soft, mine earnest, the ocean our only witness. The world feels like ours alone.We find a seashell, a keepsake of this night, and as we head back, our hands stay linked, the promise of more evenings like this lingering in the air. The night—dinner, laughter, and our moonlit walk—feels like the start of something beautiful.
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stxxxxxx

Edinburgh, SCT, GBR

How about we get to know a little first then have dinner. See where it takes us hopefully we have the chemistry we are both looking for
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Doxxxxxx

Fairhaven, MA, USA

Would love to go out on a Second date if we both feel comfortable after a tea or coffee somewhere where we both feel relaxed. I would imagine a first true dinner together would be someplace casual maybe by the ocean or someplace new and interesting for both of us. Walking afterwards talking about life and what we want going forward.. Bucket list travel plans. Laughs and maybe a kiss goognight if we both want to
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Stxxxxxx

Arizona City, AZ, USA

A first date is an icebreaker and should be in a suitable location. Usually, within the first five minutes, we know if we are compatible. I will be nervous and excited; above all, I wonder if a relationship could begin.
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Hexxxxxx

Stavanger, Rogaland, NOR

A nice dinner. Followed by a walk on the beach in warn summer breeze. We may further explore the sights of the city together over a few days.
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DSxxxxxx

Lake City, FL, USA

a dinner at Texas Roadhouse, Walk on the beach if I live nearby Lol.. or just talking having coffee...
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Krxxxxxx

Nassau, NP, BHS

Dinner by the seaside is a good place to start cool breezes blowing a cool atmosphere good company and good conversation what else would need for a first date
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Drxxxxxx
Getting to know each other on a first date can be accomplished in a variety of ways. I'd be open to dinner, dancing, going to a movie or theatre. What I woukd like is for my date to choose an activity they enjoy and I'll adapt accordingly.
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lixxxxxx

Sacramento, CA, USA

I am old fashioned when it comes to dates. I like casual dinners and conversation, maybe followed by a walk.
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maxxxxxx

Cushing, OK, USA

I'll cook my world famous spaghetti and meatballs it's to die for and you will fall in love with the idea of a man who can cook better than yo mama
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jexxxxxx

McComb, MS, USA

Love to go to movies out to eat concerts fairs family gatherings loves to communicate talk on phone with someone special
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Apxxxxxx

Louisville, KY, USA

One of the best ways to get to know someone and have a good time is meeting them for a meal or at a Cafe! To often dating is sex first and its not my style at all!
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Cuxxxxxx

Phoenix, AZ, USA

a quiet place with soft music... candle lights a great ambiance maybe over looking water or mountains...
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isxxxxxx

Ridgewood, NJ, USA

Diners talk and shange ideas see to what it will lead Even good Night kiss Nothin more special Aaaaaaaaaaaa
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waxxxxxx

Port Huron, MI, USA

have a nice dinner have a good conversation get to know each other better then we talk about what we wanted to do next
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Boxxxxxx

Alpharetta, GA, USA

Present a bouquet of flowers, the time of year will dictate what kind of flowers, have a short chat at her place before leaving, see if she has a preference on dinner, after we're seated, have a glass of wine/cocktail and chat more, a quite dinner, and see what has developed.
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Luxxxxxx

Sun City West, AZ, USA

Meeting at a restaurant sounds nice. I would enjoy chatting and getting to know who you are & good conversation. I prefer to get to know & be friends with someone that lives in my neighborhood area.
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ksxxxxxx

Gatesville, TX, USA

have a enjoyable dinner, maybe a drink and talking, maybe a walk in the park,.if we get to know each other better maybe a weekend getaway, or a road trip
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Tyxxxxxx

Bemidji, MN, USA

first date would definitely have to be Dinner or lunch. I would like to really get a good start at testing the water. Do our personalities 🤔 really mesh. You can really tell alot about someone by their menu selection... not really I don't have a clue what that would mean but wouldn't it be great if you could? seriously though, I would like to start out slow and try and get a feel about this other person and if things go good on that first date, then more romantic overatures can be thought of and made on future dates.
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jaxxxxxx

Saint George, UT, USA

We can meet for Dinner, Coffee or a Movie to get to know each other or we can make other plans after we match to set up any other date ideals.
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