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A nice dinner and a walk around the lake, getting to know each other
No rush, no pressure, no promises or lies
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It would be nice to eat at a good restaurant on a first date. We would be able to get to know each other. Discuss our interests and values. I'm sure there would not be much quiet time. I can talk, but I would prefer to listen.
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A good dinner with some good wine followed by preferably live music, but DJs are okay dancing and drinking. Preferably until closing time. That says it was a hell of a good date. Anything beyond that we can talk about it after we get acquainted. Take good care.
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Meet each other have a long heartfelt funny conversation and get to know each other to me that's a great first date. And at that date went good then there's always maybe a next date.
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We meet somewhere in the middle—neutral ground, easy for both of us, no pressure. Just a spot with good food, a relaxed vibe, and somewhere we can actually hear each other talk (because that part matters). It doesn’t have to be fancy—honestly, I’d take great conversation and decent food over anything overpriced any day.
We start with a couple of cocktails, just enough to take the edge off those first-date nerves. At first, there’s that little bit of curiosity… feeling each other out, trading stories, asking questions, seeing what makes each other laugh. Then slowly, it shifts—the conversation gets easier, more natural, and the laughs come quicker.
Before we know it, we’re completely relaxed, maybe leaning in a little closer, losing track of time, and realizing this doesn’t feel like a typical first date anymore. It feels effortless… like we’ve known each other longer than we actually have. And if the vibe is right, maybe the night doesn’t end there—maybe we take a walk, grab one more drink, or just keep the conversation going a little longer.
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Dinner somewhere we both like and talk and get to know each other and see if we connect maybe a walk in the moonlight if dinner goes well
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A nice romantic dinner in a duct off restaurant one that most people dont know about so we can be able to focus on getting to know each other and enjoy a wonderful meal and drinks and music
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Enjoy a nice upscale dinner together based on our joint preferences and if it’s not too late, go for a walk along the water
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Meet for a margarita 🍹 dinner and talk get to know the person listening to soft music and let nature take over.
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Open to lunch or dinner. Great food and good conversation are both passions of mine. Enthusiastic gardener and (amateur) landscaper so a stroll in a park or an interesting neighborhood (especially looking thru garden gates and over fences) is a favorite pastime. Like plays, symphony, concert performances as well as casual artist performances and movies (do movie houses still exist?), just need an aisle seat to accommodate my long legs. And I never, ever pass up an independent bookstore.
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I would be happy to meet for lunnch or dinner. It doesn't have to be fancy but convenient for the both of us to reach. The atmostphere is important, however, if we are attracted to one another, a fancy atmosphere doesn't matter. Truly, I look forward to meeting a man with whom I willl share a meaningful and loving relationship for the rest of our lives. It should also be a time to share some important times in our lives, laugh and enjoy our initial meeting.
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A nice restaurant ( but does not need to be fancy) followed by a evening of talking which can be decided after the meal.
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I would like to meet intimate setting Nice Restaurant Dinner Good Conversation get to know each other
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Dinner at home or a restaurant at night in a quiet place. ....candle light on the table....music slow tempo
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Someplace near the water, hopefully with live music, but not so loud we can't have a great conversation, interesting and unique food, but mostly an ambiance of natural beauty while we get to learn about each other in a relaxed and casual vibe. Alternatively, a picnic on the beach or lakefront with a bottle of wine and sunset!
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Simple or nice restaurant, movie, bowling, just a walk down the beach, or on a trail to the river,
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Relaxing walk along the beach or park or picnic. Just listening and talking to learn more about each other.
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As I've already mentioned, I'm a romantic person. So the idea of a romantic candlelit dinner followed by a romantic walk on the beach is in my preferences. Then we could continue for drinks at a nice club, ideally one on the beach, to end the evening nicely.
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I enjoy going out to dinner. Having a few drinks 🍸 it is very important to have someone to have an intellectual conversation with. I have to feel a vibe
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Start with an outdoor activity like kayaking in one of the local springs, or biking on a trail. End up at an eatery for lunch/dinner, and discover each other’s interests.
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