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Koxxxxxx

Düsseldorf, NW, DEU

Lunch or dinner in a Japanese restaurant or just a coffee or tee in nice and cozy cafe in Dusseldorf
Category: Cafe
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saxxxxxx

Fort Myers, FL, USA

Light lunch going Dutch and getting to know each other. Talk about each other's plans for the future and catch up on our current lifestyle.
Category: Lunch
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Kixxxxxx

St. Catharines, ON, CAN

Coffee shop and a good conversation, to get to know each other, no pressure. To feel that there is chemistry.
Category: Others
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JCxxxxxx

Warsaw, IN, USA

1) Walking, hiking. Public area for meet & talk. 2) Drink(s), Dinner(informal) This is garbage to reach 200 chars, Which is ridiculous for this subject. This is garbage to reach 200 chars, Which is ridiculous for this subject. Two hundred!
Category: Walking or Hiking
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KGxxxxxx

Brooksville, FL, USA

Meet & get to know each other to determine if we match. If we do, then set up a 2nd date. If not than we can move on.
Category: Lunch
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Jaxxxxxx

Sarasota, FL, USA

A quiet, intimate restaurant—soft lighting, candles on the table, the kind of place where you can actually hear each other talk. I’d show up dressed sharp, ready for a night of real conversation, real laughter, and real connection. We’d settle in, relax, and let the evening unfold naturally… no rush, no pretending, just two people being open, honest, and enjoying each other’s company. I love those moments when you catch someone’s smile in the candlelight and it feels like the rest of the room fades away. If you enjoy genuine connection, warm energy, and a man who puts real intention into a date, we’ll get along beautifully.
Category: Dinner
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brxxxxxx

CO, IRL

Meet up for a coffee and a chat. Maybe a walk somewhere public, like a park or a river walk so the lady feels safe.
Category: Drinks
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Rixxxxxx

Seattle, WA, USA

Coffee, lunch or dinner. Followed by a walk or a movie. After that, perhaps a second date, again, lunch or dinner?
Category: Culinary Adventures
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hoxxxxxx
Candlelit dinner with wine and soft music quite conversations to learn as much as possible about each other.
Category: Cafe
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Rexxxxxx

Hightstown, NJ, USA

Start out with an easy lunch. I think it's obvious early on if it should continue to dinner! Love all kinds of food.
Category: Lunch
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daxxxxxx

Nashua, NH, USA

dinner at a fine dining restaurant overlooking the ocean , then walk the beach after desert . I love good conversation and inviting atmosphere.
Category: Dinner
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raxxxxxx

Merced, CA, USA

I think cooking together helps break the ice. Ideal evening for the first date could be us meeting at my home to take a long walk, come back to my house and cook a meal together. I'm not the best of cooks but an excellent assistant. You tell me what to do to cook and it will get done. After the great meal, we'd go to a concert at Gallo Performing Art Theatre in Modesto. I love great music.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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vixxxxxx

WBR, BEL

un verre dans un endroit sympa,pas trop bruyant que nous puissions discuter. Une ambiance chaleureuse néanmoins .
Category: Drinks
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tixxxxxx

The Villages, FL, USA

Meet for a casual lunch and see if there is chemistry.Im very flexible and not concerned about likes and dislikes. But, chemistry and communication are key for me
Category: Lunch
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jbxxxxxx

Port Republic, VA, USA

like to meet and get to know each other more and talk just hang out and see how it goes maybe a second time if compatible
Category: Sweets
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jaxxxxxx

Pewaukee, WI, USA

My perfect first date is something fun but relaxed — maybe starting with a round of mini golf or hitting the driving range for some laughs, then grabbing dinner or drinks to keep the conversation flowing. I also love the idea of cooking together, keeping it simple and playful, and sharing good food while we get to know each other.
Category: Culinary Adventures
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Rpxxxxxx

Las Vegas, NV, USA

For the first meet and greet a casual get together works best. Whether over a drink and a cup or tea or coffee.
Category: Drinks
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Dexxxxxx

Macon, GA, USA

Movie Dinner walks Downtown Sports Bar Driving Around Different Places Joy Riding Stop At A Special Place For A Nice Treat.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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amxxxxxx

South Glens Falls, NY, USA

a nice dinner with a few drinks at a cozy restaurant and enjoy each other's conversation along with getting g yo know each other.
Category: Dinner
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Loxxxxxx

Fort Myers, FL, USA

Drinks and appetizers while listening to live music, or shooting pool at Dave and Busters or like, no smoky rooms please, Dancing at fun bar with great music.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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