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sTxxxxxx

Urbana, IL, USA

I'm very anti woke, DEI, ESG purple hair freako liberals. They are brainwashed, often very educated, but clueless. A first date should be in a public place where we can just get to know each other.
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Arxxxxxx

Little Rock, AR, USA

A dinner date seems like a good option, but open to other options also. I like to meet at a place that provides a good location to have a good conversation.
Category: Dinner
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Sexxxxxx

Norfolk, VA, USA

For the first in-person meeting, I would like to meet in a public place of our choosing so we can talk to determine if we would be interested in pursuing further contact.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Tixxxxxx

Las Vegas, NV, USA

I prefer having face to face discussions as soon as possible to establish a real relationship and determine compatibility. I want to as quickly as possible get past phone calls, e-mails, texts, and on-line chats, which I find can be misleading and frustrating. Open to coffee and / or drinks where a real conversation can happen, and personally would let the rest of our time together take care of itself without predetermined time limits.
Category: Drinks
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Daxxxxxx

Webster, MA, USA

"A long lunch where we lose track of time swapping stories. I've got a few decades' worth, and I'd like to hear yours."
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Haxxxxxx

Grand Junction, CO, USA

Casual lunch; discuss upbringing; discuss interests; discuss music, art, movies, books, perspectives on health and fitness
Category: Lunch
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Kaxxxxxx

Pacific Palisades, CA, USA

A leisurely lunch at an outdoor cafe followed by a stroll through a farmer's market or along the beach.
Category: Lunch
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Edxxxxxx

Canandaigua, NY, USA

I would like our first meeting to be casual. I would prefer to meet for lunch or ice-cream. I can do coffee, but at my age (?) I would be able to tell at the first meeting by chemistry and body language if there is a spark.
Category: Lunch
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Brxxxxxx

Llano, TX, USA

After verbal discussion meet some place sit in a quite place and get more acquainted maybe take a walk after the meal or take in a movie
Category: Cafe
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stxxxxxx

Philadelphia, PA, USA

Get dressed up and have dinner at a fine restaurant. After dinner, a jazz/ blues spot would be good. Then some dancing. Yeah, dance the night away.
Category: Dinner
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Bexxxxxx

Lancaster, PA, USA

Nothing too creative. A meet-up at a moderately quiet local brewery or cafe over a beer or glass of wine is ideal. The low key setting provides a great opportunity to discover each other. Alternatively, getting together to simply walk the dogs would be perfectly fine.
Category: Lunch
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mixxxxxx

Springfield, VA, USA

Dinner had a quiet place so that we can have a great conversation in private. After dinner, maybe dance.
Category: Dinner
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Rixxxxxx

Kanagawa, Kanagawa, JPN

Go for an outdoor walk and sit in the park. Then perhaps a visit to a café Also a walk on the beach
Category: Walking or Hiking
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unxxxxxx

Jacksonville, FL, USA

Meet for coffee, drink or snack. Let's keep it simple and make sure we are both interested before anything further.
Category: Drinks
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opxxxxxx

Portage, MI, USA

Something as simple as walking outside, perhaps on a park trail, on a nice day in any season would give us time to talk and get to know each other. Afterward, sharing a snack or a meal nearby would be great.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Coxxxxxx

Yonkers, NY, USA

My idea of a first date is a walk on the park and /or conversation in a coffee shop! Going to a museum or catch a Broadway show , concert . The important thing is we have similar interests and feel comfortable in each other’s company .
Category: Performing Arts
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Coxxxxxx

Union, NJ, USA

My ideal date would be with a kind confident and successful gentleman who knows how to o treat a woman with respect, love and generosity. I would enjoy a lovely dinner at a nice restaurant good conversation, laughter and get to know each other in a relaxed and a romantic atmosphere. I believe a wonderful relationship is built with trust, honesty, and mutual respect I am looking for a genuine connection with someone who enjoys life and wants to share beautiful memories together .
Category: Dinner
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Bexxxxxx

Schenectady, NY, USA

Dinner and conversation - getting to know each other. A walk in the neighborhood; coffee and music.
Category: Dinner
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Krxxxxxx

Las Vegas, NV, USA

First, met causally for breakfast or lunch, getting to know each other better; looking for any small sparks that may fly our way.
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naxxxxxx

Ayer, MA, USA

Grab a drink and if nice outside, go for a walk in the park. If not maybe head to a museum.
Category: Cafe
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