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inxxxxxx

Zebulon, NC, USA

I think the first date should be at a coffee house so that if either of us are uncomfortable, we can shake hands and go our separate ways.
Category: Cafe
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maxxxxxx

Albuquerque, NM, USA

Would involve lots of talking and listening at first to get to know each other. Some place with a good relaxing atmosphere and good lighting.
Category: Others
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Stxxxxxx

Selbyville, DE, USA

I would like to go out for a meal and/or dancing (incl. classic/oldies + square dancing, waltzing, or any). Nothing too energetic at first. I have been sitting home a lot, but I dont think it would take long to get back into the old activities. I do like my music loud and hard. A small glass of wine would be fine, but I'm not fond of the buzz I get from drinking. I would prefer my date to be a somewhat of a non-alcoholic type, like myself (non-drinkers ok). Smoking is ok, although tobacco is something I dont do myself. I am a little old-fashioned and would like to be treated like a lady.
Category: Culinary Adventures
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Sexxxxxx

Wichita, KS, USA

I guess my idea of a good first date is going to dinner and talking till the place closes. I do like going to movies too but learning about the other person is usually a good idea at first.
Category: Dinner
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texxxxxx

Breaux Bridge, LA, USA

meet somewhere safe to check out the vibrations/chemistry. then if we feel like we can go eat and talk. 2nd date dancing? maybe next time we can help each other with a project or go fishing?
Category: Dancing
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lixxxxxx

Boise, ID, USA

Dinner followed by fun conversation and a long evening walk.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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pexxxxxx

New York, NY, USA

Have dinner together at a lovely restaurant where we can be casual, talk and get to know each other. Meet at a museum show and go for drinks and dinner afterward.
Category: Dinner
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Cyxxxxxx

Lafayette, LA, USA

A nice dinner and drinks out and dancing or a good band
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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Arxxxxxx

Pahoa, HI, USA

. a sensitive quiet time so that we can truly listen to one another...over dinner in a special place
Category: Dinner
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trxxxxxx

Chicopee, MA, USA

meet for dessert and a coffee some where and chat
Category: Sweets
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vtxxxxxx

Burlington, VT, USA

Coffee/tea am/pm in a quiet cafe or meet up at an art show, flea market, outdoor/indoor performance or museum.
Category: Cafe
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jexxxxxx

Pompano Beach, FL, USA

Dinner and cocktails at a great South Florida restaurant (there are so many to choose from) followed by a walk along the beach or perhaps listening to live music.
Category: Dinner
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sixxxxxx

Ione, CA, USA

Boating, wine tasting, going out for lunch, dinner or show.. Then we can see if we like each other and go from there. What do you have in mind? I'll listen!
Category: Lunch
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jnxxxxxx

Zimmerman, MN, USA

my first date is going to be a wonderful one cos it will just be two of us alone and i
Category: Others
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blxxxxxx

Puerto Plata, Puerto Plata, DOM

For me, a first date should be someplace nice, not to busy, have a nice talk with either coffee or a drink and get to know each other
Category: Dinner
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Hoxxxxxx

Grand Marais, MN, USA

Meet for coffee and a bagel and go to a book signing or lecture or to a gallery showing.
Category: Lectures and Lessons
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Lixxxxxx

Norcross, GA, USA

Dance, Horseback ride, sit and talk over dinner, anything interactive!
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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trxxxxxx

London, ON, CAN

Warm, cozy fireplace... private and quiet.... where we can get to know each other..... This should be a joint decision...
Category: Others
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Ibxxxxxx

Alexandria, VA, USA

By all means an open, public place where my date would feel both safe and secure; able to come and leave or even stop by and leave without stopping if I am not too her liking. I am very secure and confident to understand that women must feel able to control her space and time. I take nothing personally or take most things not too seriously -- not a frivolous attitude, just that I understand that too much is far too dramatic or theatrically induced in today's interactions of men and women. I am easy-going with a sense of humor never directed at you or at your expense. Laughter is always great for a first date, in my humble opinion. How is yours?
Category: Cafe
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chxxxxxx

San Diego, CA, USA

I think for a first date it is appropiate to meet somewhere public for coffee or a cocktail. Maybe a happy hour situation.
Category: Drinks
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