FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

The important thing about a first date is to meet each other and talk in a relaxed casual atmosphere. This can be achieved at many places, such as coffee, lunch, an evening beach walk or - well - you get the idea. I will be really interested in you as a person more than making you interested in me.

A nice lunch, or a coffee date is great. It's good to be able to talk to and hear ones response. It doesn't need to be over the top to have a really fun first date. You only get to make one first impression. Let's make it count for both of us.

Somewhere quiet where we can hear each other. I like wine and I like coffee.

I love to go have nice dinner, and maybe a movie, or adventure

My first date would be meeting for coffee and getting to know each other.

My idea of a first date would be to go out to dinner and take a nice long drive along a coast.

Our first blind date (because after all the first date would be a sort of blind date deal) idea would be different than if i had already met you and sort of liked you and knew i wanted to date you. So in this case since i havn't met you and we are just sizing each other up to see if we can even go out together, i believe they should be short experiences, and if we like what we see, we can always make the 2nd date longer. So i would make it short to let us both off the hook in case it is not working out. Fair enough? once i knew you...it would be for a hike in the mountains with a picnic lunch that we put together with some special foods for just the two of us. when we found a shaded spot that overlooks a beautiful meadow with a great view we could spread out a soft blanket we packed and our food, sit and chat and eat and get to know each other with the best view in town. ummm i can see the view now, smell the pines, hear the wind russle the leaves of the trees, to me thats a great place to be with good company and conversation, good food, rest, relax and heck i might even take a nap if i'm really relaxed with you...ha ha ha...enjoying the great outdoors.... So a walk around the bay here at Mission Bay in San diego for no more than an hour. That way if it didn't work out for either one of us, neither one has to pay for anything, nor stay any longer than is comfortable, nor do you have to stare at each other awkwardly over a dinner table or coffee table and TRY to make conversatipon. A walk around the bay is entertaining, lots of sailboats to look at and people rollar skating and biking by and things to look at as you converse and size each other up ands still you can sit on a bench if you like or keep walking etc. The view and the breeze are always nice. If you really click you could always sit down at one of the restaurants along the way or stay and watch the boats, many other options.

My first date idea would be to go to a coffee house

I don't even like the word 'date'. How about a cup of coffee with quiet one-on-one conversation with no particular agenda attached? I could deal with that.

I admit right off the bat that this is going to be a boring idea, but our first date could be at a nice restaurant where we would have plenty of time to talk and begin to get to know each other. If the weather is conducive, a walk around the area would be lovely. If there is time it would be nice to go out dancing or listen to music.

I would adore a nice brunch following either by a hike in the mountains or a stroll on the beach depending in what part of the world we are situated.

Spending time getting to know you..

Maybe meet for a casual lunch or drink/coffee and if alls well meet at a park or just walk around town and talk and get to know each other

Walking under the stars to a beautiful romantic restaurant where we enjoy a fabulous bottle of wine and a delicious meal. We talk and find that we have so much in common, the chemestry is mind blowing. Following dinner we walk to a fantastic little place with great live music, we dance and laugh until the music stops. Finally we hold hands still talking about the wonderful evening we just had. Until next time.....

quiet walk along a trail or the beach just getting to know each other and then maybe a candle lit dinner and movie

LETS HAVE LUNCH AND THEN GO FOR A WALK

Love seafood, love ribs lets go to your favorite place.

Meet for coffee or take a walk in a pleasant public place. If there is a vibe, don't leave before making arrangements to meet again.

We can go to diner. A perfect setting to aquaint our selves with one another

Any place quiet to talk, over coffee or over a good glass of wine...