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Ruxxxxxx

Minneapolis, MN, USA

Meet casually for a lite lunch and then a walk in a park and sit a talk to get to know each other and hear about her favorite vacation
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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MIxxxxxx

Phoenix, AZ, USA

Meet and greet over coffee or beverage of choice. This isn't a big investment of time and a lot can be learned.
Category: Cafe
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Nixxxxxx

Olathe, KS, USA

I would enjoy going to a museum art gallery park, especially on the first day I think walking around seeing Art we’re going to the museum allows each person to get to know each other better
Category: Museums and Galleries
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maxxxxxx

Cold Spring, NY, USA

For a first date, I believe a quiet cafe or coffee shop where we can talk as long as we want and get to know each other with no pressure, just conversation and laughs.
Category: Cafe
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Caxxxxxx

Tampa, FL, USA

Share a walk and have a picnic with water, white wine, cheese, grapes, apples, olives and thin crackers.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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hexxxxxx

Newnan, GA, USA

Walk in the park. Grab some breakfast or lunch. As long as we can talk, let's collaborate and see what we come up with!
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Dixxxxxx

Saint-Bruno-de-Montarville, QC, CAN

Une rencontre simple, sans stress, autour d’un petit café ou dans un resto tranquille, pour apprendre à se connaître en toute simplicité.
Category: Cafe
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suxxxxxx

Rockport, TX, USA

I think the best first dates are simple and comfortable—maybe meeting for coffee, a casual dinner, or a walk by the water. Somewhere we can talk, laugh, and see if there’s a connection.
Category: Lunch
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nexxxxxx

Letcombe Regis, OXF, GBR

First date, I think a nice coffee shop. Somewhere public where we both feel comfortable. I believe that face to face we can get to know each other rather than just exchanging messages online!
Category: Cafe
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SGxxxxxx

Portland, OR, USA

Coffee or a small bite to eat feels like the latest trend in a first meetup. If sparks fly, it's the second date that will be one for the memory books. Fancy dinner out, or a cozy gourmet meal made fresh at my home. I like to dress up and hit the town, and I also like to be casual and make one of my favorite home dinners. Will it be Coconut Curry Lobster Bisque, or Cola-Braised Short Ribs with Polenta? Shoyu Chashu Ramen or Korean Momofuku Bossan? We'll have to decide together.
Category: Cafe
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MAxxxxxx

Vallejo, CA, USA

A nice restaurant where we can talk and get to each other and where you will feel comfortable and not too loud
Category: Dinner
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daxxxxxx

Oklahoma City, OK, USA

Maybe a zoo or museum. Something comfortable and laid back. If all is going well maybe burgers and fries afterwards.
Category: Sightseeing
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ALxxxxxx

Washington, DC, USA

intentional — a great restaurant with a warm atmosphere, unhurried service, and a menu worth lingering over. No trendy noise where you’re shouting across the table, just the kind of place where you can actually be somewhere together. I want to hear your stories — what lights you up, what you’ve learned, where you’ve been. And I’ll share mine. Good conversation over a great meal is its own kind of magic, and I think you can learn everything you need to know about someone by how they treat the server and whether they can make you laugh before dessert. No agenda, no checklist. Just two people giving each other their full attention and seeing what’s there.
Category: Dinner
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Nexxxxxx

Vaudreuil-Dorion, QC, CAN

Movie, restaurant, walking...lots of talking ; important to get a feel for each other to start out Journey.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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MAxxxxxx

Los Angeles, CA, USA

For a first date I prefer to meet up for coffee to see if we are a match and talk about what we'd like to do on a second date.
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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MJxxxxxx

Peace Dale, RI, USA

Could be dinner that I make at your place . Bottle of wine or 420 if you are 420 friendly. Foot massage for you after dinner. Could be at a pub or resturant by the water or just coffee you decide . Im a gentleman yet very spontaneous adventurous,playful and affectionate .
Category: Dinner
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roxxxxxx

Augusta, GA, USA

I thought we’d have lunch see how it goes and decide from there. if you have any suggestions, I’d be more than happy to hear them cause I can always find something to eat no matter where I go. I’m
Category: Lunch
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phxxxxxx

Philadelphia, PA, USA

Conversation over dinner. Cocktails, perhaps a walk afterwards.Have desert. I LOVE chocolate! Coffee.
Category: Dinner
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Flxxxxxx

Orlando, FL, USA

A quiet place to get to know each other and if all goes well a walk on the water to chat further. Friendship is the first step to any kind of relationship. Ice cream sounds yummy too.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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JIxxxxxx

Rochester, NY, USA

Light easy dinner at a home town bar/restaurant. Drinks and talk. Just getting to see if interested in a second meeting. I'm not a coffee person
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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