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Boxxxxxx

Fort Lauderdale, FL, USA

Something as simple as Starbuck's giving both of us a chance to engage in conversation getting to know one another, and seeing if there is a connection.
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JAxxxxxx

Lansing, MI, USA

My ideal first date would be meeting at a cozy coffee shop in Lansing, enjoying a cup of coffee, and getting to know each other. My English is still very limited, so I hope to meet someone kind and patient who doesn't mind speaking slowly. I believe a wonderful friendship begins with a warm smile, honesty, and good conversation. No pressure, just a relaxing time together.
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Baxxxxxx

O'Fallon, MO, USA

A late morning cup of coffee or lunch in a quiet Cafe where there is a sound level low enough that we can talk
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sixxxxxx

Berkeley, CA, USA

We meet at some outdoor coffee place in the afternoon and talk about the rich histories we've had in our life.
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Gaxxxxxx

Pooler, GA, USA

1st meet a coffee and conversation. 2nd time a dinner at restaurant. Then one of us could cook a meal at our house. Mine or theirs.
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Loxxxxxx

Olivette, MO, USA

Let us meet up for a smoothie, coffee, refresher, or a cocktail. We do not have to break the bank on our first date. I’m looking forward to a stimulating conversation that will intrigue me and want me starving for more.
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JDxxxxxx

Fair Oaks, CA, USA

First date causal, second date probably dinner and concert would be fun. Then take it from there; day trip to mountains or beach.
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Dixxxxxx

Fox Lake, IL, USA

Coffee first. or a good beer and burger at a neighborhood bar with a good juke box. A nice dinner on the second date.
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juxxxxxx

Forest Lake, MN, USA

Pretty simple really a quiet place to enjoy a nice conversation if all goes well we can plan a date together.
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fjxxxxxx

Tampa, FL, USA

Meet at Starbucks to see if we gel. If we do, my goal of a second date is to move away from the static, interview-like atmosphere of sitting directly across a table and introduce some shared movement or a new environment. This allows both of us to test your chemistry in a more relaxed, real-world setting while continuing to build comfort
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Shxxxxxx

New Bern, NC, USA

To meet in a nice restaurant and get to know each other. It might be the start of a good thing or it might not.
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mixxxxxx

Kuala Lumpur, Kuala Lumpur, MYS

Grab a drink at a local cafe and take a stroll through a nearby park. This flexible setup keeps conversation flowing naturally. Let's enjoy a comfortable, low-pressure environment
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Bexxxxxx

Costa Mesa, CA, USA

Just somewhere casual and comfortable to talk and get to know each other. I love a good bakery with nice coffee.
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Jexxxxxx

La Mesa, CA, USA

A simple cup of coffee/tea. I prefer to keep initial meet ups very casual so no one feels pressure if we don't click
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Noxxxxxx

Pittsburgh, PA, USA

I would like to meet in a nice and quiet cafe where we are not rushed and see how it goes. As far as a first date, a nice restaurant with a glass of wine and nice dinner sounds great.
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Dexxxxxx

Fayetteville, AR, USA

My idea of a great first date is something simple and relaxed. Coffee, a casual lunch, or maybe dessert somewhere we can sit, talk, laugh, and get to know each other. No pressure, no fancy expectations, just good conversation and hopefully a little chemistry. If we lose track of time because we're enjoying each other's company, I'd call that a pretty successful first date!
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kpxxxxxx

Sherwood Park, AB, CAN

A nice cup of Java, going for a walk, meeting up to get to know each other. Bike Ride, meeting up for lunch
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BExxxxxx

Spring Hill, FL, USA

I'd like to meet at maybe a little eatery or a cafe. Something, casual and laid back you know no pressure With no expectations in reserve
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pexxxxxx

Des Moines, IA, USA

Coffee and short walk sounds perfect, i like easy conversation and simple moments for a first date. I would enjoy meeting for coffee and a nice cafe. We could relax, talk, get to know each other and enjoy some good conversation
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Saxxxxxx

Schaumburg, IL, USA

I think sitting across from one another over coffee is a good first date. If the conversation is enjoyable, both people can decide next steps.
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