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ouxxxxxx

Palm Desert, CA, USA

Walk and coffee at the Living Desert Zoo and Gardens. Somewhere quiet where we can talk honestly and openly about our likes, challenges, blessings, family and what friendship means to each other.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Paxxxxxx
I would like to go out for a light lunch and then for a walk on a public trail. Then later on to an art gallery or museum for browsing. Then I would like to go to a live music venue for listening and dancing.
Category: Dancing
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ROxxxxxx

Indianapolis, IN, USA

The Restaurant of her choice And maybe you'll walk on the canal Or a movie if she preferred Everything would be up to her.
Category: Dinner
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saxxxxxx

Joliet, IL, USA

A nice chat over eggs and coffee would be nice. I love nature, gardening, and yardwork. Housework not so much. I live a pretty secure life as a retired grandma who is seeking a life of her own.
Category: Brunch
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Caxxxxxx

Richmond, VA, USA

I always prefer to keep things on the casual side! I don't own the proverbial "little black dress" or any high heels. My preference for the first date would be to meet for coffee at a nice cafe.
Category: Cafe
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Paxxxxxx

Tucson, AZ, USA

I’m happy to meet for coffee, a casual lunch or dinner anywhere. Not much on fast food however! The important thing is is to meet!
Category: Lunch
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DSxxxxxx

Kapolei, HI, USA

Dinner, a scenic walk, and easy conversation—seeing if the connection feels natural and the vibe flows.
Category: Dinner
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roxxxxxx

Stateline, NV, USA

Walk on the beach in Hawaii or watch the stars on a river bank sitting by a fire after a good day of looking for gold. Cooking over the open fire. And enjoying each other's company listening to music and enjoying the evening
Category: Walking or Hiking
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naxxxxxx
Not a conformist when it comes to traditional first date ideas, if it were to progress to that stage. Whatever feels right and comfortable for the both of us. We will know!!
Category: Others
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maxxxxxx

Stratford, CT, USA

I like going out to dinner and a drink in a darker atmosphere in a secluded booth with maybe a candle glowing sitting close together talking getting to know each other
Category: Dinner
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Daxxxxxx

Pewaukee, WI, USA

Our 1st date should be casual and relaxed in a nice Cafe. The noise level around the room should be Low so WE can Talk eaily.
Category: Cafe
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Paxxxxxx

Owings Mills, MD, USA

A quiet Cafe for deep conversations, and just getting to know each other in a quiet friendly atmosphere.
Category: Cafe
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Loxxxxxx

Danville, WA, USA

It would be nice to meet for a coffee at first and to see what we think about each other after talking for a few minutes. It shouldn’t take that long to know if we enjoy each other’s company.
Category: Cafe
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Nexxxxxx

Las Vegas, NV, USA

Either a quiet dinner where we can talk and enjoy each other's company. Since I live in a guard gated community and everyone has to show proof of identity at the gate, I might be willing to cook dinner
Category: Dinner
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Haxxxxxx

USA

On our initial date, I plan to etch our initials into a tree; it’s the most charming way to reveal that I carry a knife.
Category: Fancy Dining
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maxxxxxx

Aberdeen, SD, USA

A nice dinner in an Italian restaurant having good conversation getting to know each other. After a walk holding hands.
Category: Dinner
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Stxxxxxx

Greeley, CO, USA

Start with daylight hours where eye contact is important. Volume is lower than a dull roar. Laughs are loud and long. Conversation is two-way and continuous as time should never interfere. Always a want and need for a return engagement.
Category: Brunch
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maxxxxxx

Madrid, MD, ESP

Una cita en un buen café con u. ambiente tranquilo y acogedor para compartir un momento ameno y muy divertido
Category: Cafe
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Baxxxxxx

Los Angeles, CA, USA

A "first date" could be in multiple stages: Coffee and covo first, then dinner and a walk, visiting church together, and then whatever creative idea he comes up with? Going sailing or to a classical music concert, or taking a long drive could all be fun.
Category: Cafe
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Tbxxxxxx

Montgomery, PA, USA

Definately a lunch and or dinner..Leave ur wallet at home..I'd never ask you to pay for a thing.....
Category: Lunch
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