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We can decide that together when and if we decide to meet.
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How about we met and discuss what interest both of us....that should shed light on the situation...
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Let's go for a bike ride, somewhere neither of us have been before, and explore it together.
Category: Playing Sports / Games
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For a first meeting, let's have wine and appetizers after work. It's comfortable, a little flirty, and you can easily control how long you prefer to linger, or not. We will giggle, if not laugh out loud.
Second date: wine & dine & a show or dancing.
Category: Drinks
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Anywhere, like a café, where we can talk, have a cup of decent coffee and see if sparks fly.
Category: Cafe
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It would be nice to meet for dinner in a nice quiet restaurant.
Category: Dinner
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meeting at an ocean view restaurant for lunch or drinks at a quiet wine bar with soft music playing.
Category: Lunch
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Lunch during the week to see if we want to take it any further.
Category: Lunch
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I am thinking of an easy, casual, enjoyable first date at a coffee shop or bookstore that sells coffee. The conversation can be casual and stress free, and the date can be as brief as 30 minutes or as long as a couple of hours talking together, perusing the bookstore aisles...no pressure but the sky's the limit!
Category: Cafe
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We would have to meet first for coffee. I think that is a must.It gives us both a chance to get a fill for each other,and to talk for a while. At least we would both know if we wanted to see each other again.I would fill more comfortable. In a public place.
I think a first date could be lunch, dinner, or a movie.
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Visiting a place to learn and ponder.
Category: Museums and Galleries
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Have not been on first date in 40+ years! just would be happy to meet for coffee or a light lunch! nothing fancy
Category: Lunch
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Just meet for coffee or some other beverage where we can just sit and talk and hopefully not be nervous. Let's get to know each other and feel comfortable to where we would want a second date.
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How about meeting in the Shenandoah Valley (outside Plymouth, CA) and have a leisurely lunch at Villa Toscana on a Friday afternoon or on Sunday at Bella Piazza, share a bottle of wine, enjoy the beauty and peacefulness of the vineyards and talk about who we are, where we have been in our lives and where we are going....
Category: Lunch
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My first date would be in a public place and could be anything from a Starbucks for coffee to a nice dinner at the Chart House or any other nice restaurant in the Portland area. It could even be brunch at Salty's on the Columbia. After dinner we could go dancing or after brunch go for a walk along the river.
Category: Brunch
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Love a good steak and king crab, yum
Category: Dinner
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Go out for a walk, and to go get dinner and talk and get to know each other more. Something simple and sweet.
Category: Dinner
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I would like to go skiing for or biking, or just a hike in the mountains. Depends on the weather and time of year.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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The the term "first date" is something used quite often that so many people feel slightly uncomfortable with. Is it a date ? ...isn't it a date? When do you go from meeting someone initially to "dating". I think the first meeting should be exactly that. You are meeting someone for the first time... & if you are intelligent ... that meeting is just that... meeting someone for coffee, drinks ...go for a walk... whatever 2 people decide they are comfortable with. As long as both people show up... then there is a "meeting"... anything after that is a possible bonus... & if there is no mutual chemistry or spark... nothing is lost. You did something most people feel a little awkward doing at times... be proud of yourself. :) Besides... if there is a "spark"... isn't that a great start. :)
Category: Cafe
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