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Meet for lunch, coffee, or whatever, very casual., Maybe walk around or just sit, talk, and get comfortable with each other.
Category: Lunch
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I think a casual, no-pressure meeting at a quiet coffee shop would be nice, where we can talk and see if we can move forward.
Category: Cafe
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I would love to meet for coffee or tea. That way, we can have the time to choose whether or not we want to continue to see each other.
Category: Cafe
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A casual afternoon at a winery. Listening to music, tasting wines or craft beer. Walking around enjoying nature.
Category: Drinks
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Soft background music, maybe Jackie Evancho, I hate having to speak loudly to a person a mere four feet away. Nice meal, not too much, a satisfying amount. Sharing a double Black Russian my style would suffice.
We have already had 50 discussions on various topics. We are beginning to fall for each other. We get tipsy, not drunk, on first meet because we trust each other. People reveal more of themselves when tipsy (not clothes, silly). I have already asked if she is interested in surrendering her trust. Please note I said "trust," not virginity (highly unlikely anyway), not breasts, or anything else related to the sexual realm. My whole purpose to the woman surrendering her trust is twofold: 1) To reward her for her surrender and 2) for me to gain her trust in return, and I will not fail. It should be a pleasurable journey. Please remember we have had several discussions and much has been already discovered about ourselves... sensuality, humor, sensitivity, care, and attention to detail are just some of the characteristics you will discover about me in such a situation. Curious? Ask me for the documentation, but I prefer some discussion first, obviously.
Category: Dinner
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Somewhere we are both comfortable with such as Olive Garden, Texas Roadhouse, or a place to have coffee.
Category: Dinner
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Just coffee. no one really knows if they want to persue getting to know someone and I'm not desperate. Please don't be desperate either.
Category: Cafe
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A comfortable, friendly dinner and possibly a movie after. Plus, plenty of time to talk to learn about each other.
Category: Dinner
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I think the first meet up should be at a coffee shop or something very casual so in case either one of us feels, it’s not going the way we would like it to go. We can easily escape! Ha ha!
Category: Cafe
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I think a first date should be casual and easy, just an opportunity to see if we click. I hear Starbucks is typical, or maybe a walk in the park if it’s nice outside. I haven’t met anyone new in a long time, so I’m open to your suggestions. And I hope we click!
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Meet for happy hour. Or possibly a day at the beach. Shrimp cocktail, fruit and veggies. With a bottle of wine.
Category: Dinner
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Dinner overlooking the ocean with quiet background music and a good wine list but not too expensive.
Category: Dinner
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I've been dreaming up a first date idea that's just the right mix of quirky and intriguing. We could meet at Summer Moon Coffee for a relaxed vibe and a cup of their unique oak-roasted coffee, enjoying some great conversation in a cozy,intimate setting.
Category: Drinks
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A nice lunch to start
hoping to get to know her and then see how compatible she is with me. Then who knows...
Category: Lunch
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I like finding new dining places, good movies, long drives to new places or along a rugged coast. Campfires on the coast or dessert or forest. Watching the stars and planets.
Category: Sightseeing
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For a first meeting, something we mutually are comfortable with ; public spot but still private enough to enjoy a conversation.
Also would depend on our distance from each other....something convenient to us both.
Category: Brunch
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Enjoying a meal together, talking about life and goals. Short walks together sitting outdoor by the fire.
Category: Lunch
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A trip to the beach, followed by dinner at a seafood restaurant. I will be having the surf and turf entrée with a good amount of french fries.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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A nice dinner at a restaurant of the lady's choice followed up by a movie or a nice walk. Dessert would be nice as well.
Category: Dinner
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A casual dinner and able to talk freely. I eat certain foods: no seafood or pork. I drink liquor, fancy drinks are ok for small talk.
Category: Cafe
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