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Pexxxxxx

West Hartford, CT, USA

A nice walk or hike followed by coffee or a refreshment. Talk and get to know one another. Hopefully enjoy one another and plan a second date.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Bexxxxxx

Harrisburg, PA, USA

First date ideas? Something easy like coffee so we can talk a little and get to know each other to see if there is a connection.
Category: Cafe
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laxxxxxx

Charlottesville, VA, USA

A hike, a meal, a gallery. Please see below where I've gone into more detail for a first date! The sky is the limit!
Category: Culinary Adventures
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Loxxxxxx

Austin, TX, USA

Meeting for coffee, lunch or dinner at a quiet restaurant where we can talk, preferably with outdoor seating. I don't drink alcohol very often but meeting for a drink is ok too.
Category: Cafe
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JExxxxxx

Indianapolis, IN, USA

I'm open to meeting public or private in a park or elsewhere, dinner together, go for a pleasant drive or evening together ECT maybe catch a movie.
Category: Others
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KMxxxxxx

Goffstown, NH, USA

Maybe an al fresco type of environment where we can sit outside on a warm, sunny afternoon, have a drink, people watch, order some appetizers, etc., and have a relaxed exchange of stories, ideas... After we could take a "stroll" possibly and stretch our legs as we get to know each other a bit more. Maybe get some ice cream, stop in some stores, museums if close by and just enjoy a lazy afternoon together.
Category: Cafe
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Caxxxxxx

Boston, MA, USA

Just a leisurely walk and talk to explore. Perhaps followed by coffee afterwards, depending on the mood.
Category: Sightseeing
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KAxxxxxx

Seattle, WA, USA

Meeting over lunch, dinner, coffee or wine. It really is about getting to connect and getting to know each other. That is what really matters 😉 right ~
Category: Dinner
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soxxxxxx

Belleville, MI, USA

I would love a first date at a cozy coffee shop or a nice restaurant where we can talk, laugh, and get to know each other. I enjoy meaningful conversations, a good sense of humor, and a relaxed atmosphere. I believe a beautiful connection begins with friendship, respect, and natural chemistry.
Category: Culinary Adventures
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Raxxxxxx

Minnetonka, MN, USA

Would be one that starts with a warm and friendly hello, progresses in depth of conversation and chemistry, and evolves into a deep and empathetic dynamic of sharing and openness that goes on for hours.
Category: Others
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drxxxxxx

Cockeysville, MD, USA

A nice walk followed by lunch at a casual restaurant. Depending on the weather, outdoors would be wonderful.
Category: Lunch
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Muxxxxxx

Temperance, MI, USA

Drinks are a great starting point - no awkward eating mishaps, no expensive dinner if things don't click, and a glass of wine or a cocktail helps relax the atmosphere. Somewhere fairly quiet is preferred, so we can talk and get to know each other better. And go from there...
Category: Drinks
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maxxxxxx

Aldbourne, WIL, GBR

Coffee chat get to know each other check each other out explore our future and see where it leads We might be lucky
Category: Cafe
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Mixxxxxx

Oxford, NC, USA

A casual lunch followed by a walk and talking about our lives/family/careers/hobbies/interests/bucket lists.
Category: Lunch
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maxxxxxx

Austin, TX, USA

I am active but not athletic. Was a dancer so that's my favorite way to keep active. I would be truly happy with any activity that is done together and thoughtfully planned.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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joxxxxxx

Sioux City, IA, USA

Let's have a romantic dinner with great conversation. Then a horse and carriage ride followed by a walk along the water.
Category: Dinner
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Lyxxxxxx

Front Royal, VA, USA

A charming little café, a leisurely lunch, or a walk somewhere beautiful. Nothing too complicated, just good conversation, easy laughter, and a chance to discover what makes each other smile. I believe the best first dates aren't about where you go, but how you feel when you're together. And if neither of us wants the date to end, I'd say that's a pretty wonderful beginning!
Category: Cafe
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mixxxxxx

Seattle, WA, USA

The setting for a perfect first date isn't set in stone; it could truly happen anywhere, as the company is what matters most. That said, I often envision it starting in the late afternoon, meeting up at a cozy local coffee shop or a quiet bistro to break the ice and share a few laughs over a warm drink. From there, we’d head to a historic independent theater or a matinee screening to catch a great film—whether that's a timeless classic, a compelling documentary, or an old Hollywood musical—all while sharing a giant bowl of popcorn. Afterward, we would take a leisurely, peaceful walk through a well-lit downtown park or main street, eventually settling into a comfortable restaurant for a nice dinner and a great bottle of wine. It’s a wonderful, low-pressure way to talk about the movie, dive into deep conversation, and see if our shared rhythms click.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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Lixxxxxx

Collado Villalba, MD, ESP

No me importaria ver una exposición de arte, o dar un paseo por el jardín botánico, Madrid Rio o la Sierra de Madrid, y luego tomarnos algo.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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