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Jexxxxxx

New Smyrna Beach, FL, USA

I'd probably just go for and site and hopefully a great conversation or go for a nice walk in nature or beach, which you would feel the most comfortable!!!
Category: Arts and Crafts
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Laxxxxxx

Statham, GA, USA

Dinner and a good bottle of wine by candlelight in a nice cozy restaurant or at home with soft music playing in the background. Followed by a walk on the beach, holding hands and counting stars.
Category: Dinner
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Jixxxxxx

Tallahassee, FL, USA

The venue for the date depends on the time of day that both of us are available. I would prefer to share the details of our lives over Food. I am a gentleman, and I was raised to have good manners and respect towards women. Since we’re both senior adults, I think that our first date should be a collaboration.
Category: Lunch
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kaxxxxxx

Elgin, IL, USA

Weather permitting, I love the idea of a park -somewhere easy and unhurried, where we can relax, be ourselves, and talk without a clock running. A walk, a bench, a coffee in hand; that's plenty. And a nice restaurant is always lovely too. It doesn't need to be fancy - good ambiance, decent food, and a table where the conversation can wander are all I'm after. Really, the venue matters less than the company. Either way, what I'm hoping for is the easy, unforced kind of evening where two people just... click, and lose track of time.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Loxxxxxx

Foxborough, MA, USA

The first date should be all about exploration and trying to gauge the other person like their personality and their state of mind. I think you can do this best over coffee or lunch in a relaxed atmosphere in a quiet place. I don’t wanna go to place it’s noisy so I can focus in on what the person across the table is saying to me. I tend to talk less and do more and I understand that someone who talks a lot is telling the person across the table that they’re not gonna understand them. I think it would be nice to perhaps go see some acoustic live music that’s another thing I like because I love music. All in all, I think it should be relaxed, cool, interesting, and it would be excellent if you have a chemistry with the person. I can’t define chemistry, I can’t explain chemistry. I only know it when I see it.
Category: Cafe
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Lexxxxxx

Brunswick, GA, USA

As a first date, a place comfortable to both of us, maybe country club casual. As a second date maybe a fine dining experience.
Category: Lunch
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MSxxxxxx

Hudson, WI, USA

My first date idea could be anything from getting an ice cream cone and just having a nice conversation. Get to know each other to taking a boat ride on the river driving down the highway on a scenic drive go to an art museum. Take a walk in the park I’m very easy to get along with and I enjoy just about anything. I enjoy the outdoors and outdoor activity pretty laid-back easy to get along with make a suggestion. I’ll probably agree if you want me to take charge I can if you just wanna talk about it we can make up something together. Let’s do that. Being able to do something with somebody I like is as important to me as what I do
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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NAxxxxxx

Sun City, AZ, USA

Coffee/soft drink and a walk. Conversation and getting better acquainted with a possibility of a second meeting.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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CLxxxxxx

San Diego, CA, USA

Obviously the quality of the person is most important but I would like to meet someone who lives in San Diego or withint 25 miles.
Category: Cafe
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Moxxxxxx

Fort Wayne, IN, USA

First date would be a beautiful dinner followed by a walk along a Broadway near water. Wonderful food, beautiful evening, great company!
Category: Dinner
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JOxxxxxx

Michigan City, IN, USA

Pizza and a drink in downtown Chicago, walk the Magnificent Mile and the Chicago River, Lakeshore Drive. I love this city.
Category: Cafe
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TPxxxxxx

Amesbury, MA, USA

Relaxing lunch and good conversation. Perhaps a walk along the waterfront. If Newburyport is to far maybe somewhere closer to Boston.
Category: Lunch
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Boxxxxxx

Boise, ID, USA

A nice quiet restaurant or other place where we can get to know each other. Chinese restaurants are usually the best for this. Subsequent times can be at fancier places such as Epi’s Basque restaurant in Meridian.
Category: Dinner
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Joxxxxxx

Indianapolis, IN, USA

For me the first date is all about getting to know the person. A great bottomless cup of coffee or tea in a great setting where the proprietor will not be tapping his or her watch. I talk like I’m paid by the word (and I have been at times!) so I want all the time in the world to get to know the person sitting across from me.
Category: Cafe
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Jixxxxxx

Northford, CT, USA

First date should be somewhere that makes both feel comfortable. Most likely in a public place. Could be anything from coffee, breakfast, brunch, lunch, drinks, or dinner. Time should be long enough to determine if this a journey for both to pursue further.
Category: Dinner
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laxxxxxx

Florence, OR, USA

How about going to the beach for a picnic, favorite sandwiches and a bottle of wine, followed by a walk on the beach…
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Joxxxxxx

Montvale, NJ, USA

Any quiet place where we can talk and learn a bit about each other. Indoors or outdoors works for me.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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KAxxxxxx

College Station, TX, USA

Due to my lack of mobility at the moment I think a first date would probably happen in my home. We would order in food and enjoy hopefully good conversation.
Category: Dinner
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ROxxxxxx

Egham, ENG, GBR

A nice dinner where we can chat and get to know eachpther better and relax and just genreal chit chat
Category: Lunch
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Inxxxxxx

Enterprise, AL, USA

Let's share a light lunch and talk about the questions and interests we each have. Then see where time takes us.
Category: Lunch
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