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Coffee or a cocktail to see if we click for a first date/connection. If we don’t click - we tried. If we do - let’s plan our second connection.
Category: Drinks
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I would like to cook for you sometime but first we meet and have a spark and then have over just for dinner
Category: Dinner
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An intimate lunch or dinner where we can talk followed by a walk. Maybe on the riverwalk but I am open to other ideas.
Category: Dinner
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Walking, sitting, talking.
Ice skating.
Bowling.
Darts. Pool.
State Fair.
Mini golf.
Canoe Minneapolis lakes.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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There is nothing like sitting with someone over a meal and engaging with her energy. Learning who this person is. Of course you also have to keep quiet at times otherwise you won't get to eat.
It's difficult to fake your personality when you are busy chewing. 😉
Category: Lunch
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Go to a concert or jump on the super chief from KC to Chicago just because I've always wanted to do that. Have a lovely candlelit dinner for two with great food and drink. It can be as simple as a picnic or a movie at the theater or at home. I just want to relax and get to know you.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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Nothing too elaborate. Coffee, lunch, or drinks somewhere we can actually hear each other talk. A bookstore. Lunch and a walk. Wandering around a thrift store and showing each other ridiculous things.
I like dates where there’s room to talk and laugh and discover whether we’re comfortable together. If we lose track of time because the conversation is good, that’s an excellent sign.
I’m much less interested in impressing someone than in finding out whether we genuinely enjoy being around each other.
Category: Cafe
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Something light and easy, like a stroll in a park or around town, with coffee or tea. Maybe a short hike?
Category: Walking or Hiking
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A delicious dinner at a restaurant with a relaxing atmosphere. Plenty of talking to get to know each other better. Afterwards, if possible, take a walk and talk about whatever subjects, that may enlighten each other deeper into our wants and needs for the future.
Category: Dinner
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I'm really starting my journey looking for friends so something like walking or hiking or meeting for coffee something low-key.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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I want a relaxed informal first meeting. Perhaps a local coffee shop where we can spend some time getting to know each other. If we are a good fit, then we can plan our next outing.
Category: Cafe
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For a first date I'm thinking someplace quiet so we can talk and low-key so we're both comfortable. A fabo café or a big healthy spread of a self serve lunch area, a myriad of healthy drinks, and full bakery with great bread and delicate little frosted cakes. Yes I realize I'm talking about Whole Foods but only as a last resort from something local and with the right vibe. Grab it and go on a picnic.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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How about an in town walk with coffee and a conversation? Or a drink at an outdoor deck? Or art night at a Midcoast town ? Or outdoor music nights in Belfast? I like to dance!
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First date would perhaps consist of brunch/lunch maybe in Fenton or anywhere of her chosing. Make it kinda short just in case there is no connection. Or make it long in case there is a connection.
Category: Lunch
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A first encounter might include drifting through an art gallery and discussing what the artist meant to portray in his / her art.
Followed by a coffee, etc., if the pleasure continues!
Category: Museums and Galleries
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I would love to go out to a live music restaurant and get to know each other. We can also get dessert after ;).
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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I just like to meet for coffee or a drink to talk and see what the other person is all about and go from there.
Category: Cafe
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Honestly, just lunch or dinner. Nothing fancy. We're both trying to get to know each other and looking out for red-flags. That's stressful enough without trying to throw in a "wow" factor.
Category: Dinner
Location: I accidentally clicked on a location and now I can't make it go away!!!, Florence, KY, USA
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No expectations for a date - just a pleasant exchange of who we are and what we are about....in a lovely open space - maybe a walk, maybe a meal.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Somewhere outdoors (weather permitting) where we can talk, grab a light bite and enjoy the scenery while we walk. Then maybe follow up with dinner if the day goes well.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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