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toxxxxxx

Reisterstown, MD, USA

A well-planned date should balance fun and personal growth, like a cooking class, painting sessions, gallery tours, etc.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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ilxxxxxx

Huixquilucan, MEX, MEX

Platicar tranquilamente, comer o cenar rico, algún vino. Sin presunciones solo conocernos, ser reales, honestos y descubrir si tendremos una siguiente cita.. o no.
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Alxxxxxx

Glen Ellyn, IL, USA

Just out to eat, talk get to know each other, and see if there is a connection then can plan from there
Category: Dinner
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Joxxxxxx

Virginia Beach, VA, USA

Coffee at a unique spot. Maybe with a sweet treat. Chance to talk and get to know each other without the pressure of a time limit
Category: Drinks
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Maxxxxxx

Campinas, SP, BRA

Primeiro um encontro para um café e um bate papo. Em algum shopping em Campinas. Shopping Iguatemi Campinas.
Category: Cafe
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Scxxxxxx

North Hollywood, CA, USA

I feel a first date should be very low stress. Maybe meet up for coffee or lunch and get to know each other a bit more face to face.
Category: Cafe
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maxxxxxx

SGP

In a serene and beautiful environment, with a very sweet melodious songs playing lightly on the background.
Category: Dinner
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lexxxxxx

Mississauga, ON, CAN

Really the first date for me would be practical and comfortable environment in a cafe/Bakery, not to many people, not too much noise. A place where you can chat and connect…go from there.
Category: Cafe
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Nexxxxxx

Pasadena, CA, USA

Meet for early cocktails and snacks and see where the night takes us. I’m a sit at the bar person as opposed to table dining.
Category: Drinks
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Pexxxxxx

Duluth, MN, USA

I'm in Duluth, mn. So I would like to take you down to canal park and go to a ice cream/sweets shop and maybe some coffee and walk the canal on lake Superior.
Category: Sweets
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kixxxxxx

Tacoma, WA, USA

Meet for coffee or a drink. Chat and get to know each other. Walk at a park or water front, meet at a museum or farmers market walk around and chat.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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Toxxxxxx

Prescott, AZ, USA

Whiskey row is close by and offers a wide range of experiences. Meet at a bar of your choice and talk over a drink. Meet at a pool table and discuss what the stakes will be. Meet on a dance floor of your choice. Meet on a bench in front of the courthouse and walk together while sharing each other’s thoughts.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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texxxxxx

Sault Ste. Marie, ON, CAN

Meet somewhere and grab a coffee, go for a drive, maybe a beach or park take a casual walk and find a peaceful place to sit and chat and get to know each other. Just keep it simple!
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Rexxxxxx

Jacksonville, FL, USA

Let’s keep it simple and real. Meet up for coffee somewhere cozy and low-key—good vibes, good music, no pressure. Just enough time to talk, laugh, and see if there’s chemistry worth exploring. If the conversation flows and the energy feels right, we can stretch it into a walk or a second cup. If not, no hard feelings—just two people getting a feel for the vibe and seeing if there’s something there to build on. Easy, intentional, and honest.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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Anxxxxxx

Kirchdorf, HH, DEU

Ein Spaziergang zu zweit in einem Kunstmuseum, um nach einem guten Restaurant die Schönheit der Gemälde zu genießen.
Category: Museums and Galleries
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JAxxxxxx

Laguna Niguel, CA, USA

For a first date, let’s keep it light—maybe a stroll along Laguna’s coast at sunset, a casual bite at a local restaurant , and a glass of wine. We’ll let the conversation flow and see where the evening takes us.
Category: Drinks
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Anxxxxxx

Mesa, AZ, USA

A visit to the Phoenix Art Museum, to look at the Ed Mielle or the Japanese collection. Perhaps lunch or coffee at the restaurant
Category: Museums and Galleries
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Maxxxxxx

Baldwin Park, CA, USA

A relaxed coffee or tea at a cozy café, followed by a short walk somewhere peaceful — like a park or outdoor plaza. Simple, comfortable, and easy to talk. If it goes well, maybe continue with a light lunch or visit a bookstore or farmers market. Nothing fancy — just a setting where we can have real conversation, laugh naturally, and see if the connection feels warm and genuine. For me, the best first date is about feeling comfortable, respected, and heard — not impressed.
Category: Cafe
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Jixxxxxx

San Jose, CA, USA

I think a good first date is something where we're going to be able to communicate and connect, like a museum or dog park.
Category: Others
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ASxxxxxx

O'Fallon, IL, USA

Just a nice quiet place to talk and get to know each other. I do drink, but would prefer coffee or tea, I do appreciate a good latte.
Category: Cafe
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