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Arxxxxxx

New Paltz, NY, USA

First date is probably over à cup of coffee. Next would be dinner at your choice of restaurants (I’ll eat almost anything that isn’t moving too fast).
Category: Cafe
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naxxxxxx

Gastonia, NC, USA

meet for lunch someplace between where he lives and I live to get acquainted. If lunch goes well, a dinner date would be the next option.
Category: Lunch
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Jixxxxxx

San Diego, CA, USA

Have coffee under shady trees, take a walk on the beach or in the park afterwards. We can also visit The Museum of Art in Balboa Park.
Category: Museums and Galleries
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FRxxxxxx

Sacramento, CA, USA

Coffee and conversation in a nice location preferably with a view. Introduce ourselves and share the activities we like to do for fun.
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joxxxxxx

Upper Hutt, WGN, NZL

My first real date would probably be a relaxed dinner with good food, wine & background music, where we could get to know each other.
Category: Dinner
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shxxxxxx

Elgin, SC, USA

Sitting and having a serious talk getting to know each other to see if we are compatible and if not we can still be friends
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Sexxxxxx

Noxon, MT, USA

A Starbucks, Panera or similar in North Idaho, NWest Montana or Spokane, Wa. ¤¤ I live in NW MT on/above a lake near Noxon, Mt in the NW Rockies. I'm 1 hour East of Sandpoint, ID, 35 min to a 3 ☆ floating restaurant and about 2 hours from Coeur d' Alene, ID or over to Glacier National Park. ¤¤ Come visit and enjoy the natural beauty and wildlife surrounding my region and home, 24/7...
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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chxxxxxx

Holland, MI, USA

Let's go somewhere quiet, where we won't be rushed and see if in an hour we want to continue the conversation.
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Orxxxxxx

Irvine, CA, USA

Coffee or Tea, close to Irvine. Chat time, as it takes a little while to get to know someone. When I am reading an article or a story, I like to read short paragraphs. I am not thrilled with the really long paragraphs from some of the writers. I enjoyed reading Frankenstein written by Mary Shelley, back in the year 1818. Mary Shelley had a very good grasp on the written word.
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LIxxxxxx

Ft. Pierce, FL, USA

Would prefer a local coffee shop midmorning but lunch is fine too. I will feel more comfortable with this activity for the first couple of meet ups.
Category: Lunch
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jaxxxxxx

Garland, TX, USA

First date is about getting acquainted. Meeting for coffee, breakfast or lunch in a place where we can talk without much distraction…… and see what happens!! From there two intelligent adults can figure out where we go from here! :-)
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naxxxxxx

Saskatoon, SK, CAN

For a first date, I'd keep it simple - meet for coffee, have a good conversation, and take some time to get to know each other. I think the best first dates are relaxed, without a lot of pressure, just seeing if we enjoy each other's company.
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mixxxxxx

Baldwinsville, NY, USA

Breakfast at Paneras, long & leisurely, bagel with a 'smear' and just a cold glass of water; not a coffee drinker
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MAxxxxxx

O'Fallon, MO, USA

Meet for Coffee or Lunch and then take a walk in the Park and while walking plan for a date at a nice Restaurant.
Category: Lunch
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DLxxxxxx

Katy, TX, USA

Lunch to get acquainted!!! What kind of life we have and the future. Where the person traveled and they would like to travel to.
Category: Lunch
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ARxxxxxx

Metuchen, NJ, USA

As it is highly unlikely that a potential partner will live within 100 miles, I see a series of WhatsApp video calls taking place to get to know one another somewhat. If all goes well, I see one or both of us travelling either to one of our locations or to a warm vacation destination. Whichever it is, we would definitely enjoy fine dining, talking, sightseeing, relaxing and really getting to know each other. It looks like the system is going to set a location for the first date. I can't find how to delete it. Please ignore it.
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Lexxxxxx

Windsor, WNM, GBR

Long walks in Windsor Great Park & surrounding areas or short walks in Savill Gardens, listening to the sounds of nature.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Zixxxxxx

Arlington, TX, USA

My first date most likely will be some coffee so as to try and get to know each other. I have not dated anyone in many years so I will be a little nervous.
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Prxxxxxx
Whatever we agree on - its the spirit not the ambiance that's important. But coffee or a nice dinner is a good start.
Category: Dinner
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Maxxxxxx

Papillion, NE, USA

Attending a concert and a drink afterwards would be lovely. A chance to talk about the event we attended and get to know one another would be really nice.
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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