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BExxxxxx
A calm, unhurried afternoon where we can really talk. I love the idea of meeting for a quiet cup of coffee or dinner date. A low-pressure setting where we can share stories and laugh together is perfect." ​
Category: Dinner
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waxxxxxx

Boca Raton, FL, USA

On a first date, I’d love something where we can actually talk and get to know each other. A nice dinner, coffee at Starbucks, exploring a new place, visiting a museum, listening to live music, or trying something neither of us have done before could all be fun. I’m not much of a drinker, so I would much rather meet over a great cup of coffee and good conversation. I’m really less interested in what we do than in the company. If we’re laughing, enjoying ourselves, and losing track of time because the conversation is so good, that sounds like a pretty perfect first date to me.
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saxxxxxx

Clearwater, FL, USA

Take a ride and go wherever, whenever. Evenings are much cooler and pleasurable although daylight activities are never rejected.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Scxxxxxx

Pine City, MN, USA

How about a nice dinner. Somewhere we can have a good Ribeye or prime rib would be perfect. I do know of a few good places for pasta or burgers also.
Category: Dinner
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KIxxxxxx

Lebanon, MO, USA

Candles and diffuser, anything that smells good, a little romance, good conversation, good telling jokes and receiving them. A great kisser, the secret to my heart ❤️
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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Maxxxxxx

Sooke, BC, CAN

So…..we start with the kind of interview lol. That does not count as a first date. First date should be relaxing, quiet and honest.
Category: Culinary Adventures
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roxxxxxx

Axbridge, SOM, GBR

First meet would be for a cuppa, ideally, in one of Somerset's excellent hostelries. First date would be whatever we had discussed and agreed upon
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Stxxxxxx

Laguna Hills, CA, USA

Coffee first, or something similar. Somewhere to sit, talk, and see if there’s a real click. If it goes well, we can take a walk. If it doesn’t, no long dinner to sit through. Just a simple, low-pressure way to meet in person and decide if we want a second date.
Category: Cafe
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vExxxxxx

Sacramento, CA, USA

First date for me is always better when it's light and breezy, no pressure, relaxing, fun, and most important get to know each other casually
Category: Cafe
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KRxxxxxx

Anchorage, AK, USA

If we go out, my ideal first date is meeting at a local cafe for meet and greet, and if local in Alaska , walk through the parks with my dog. If I'm traveling to you, meet and great at your favorite local cafe, then you show me the local vibes.
Category: Cafe
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Coxxxxxx

Valencia, PA, USA

I think a simple coffee/drink, or brunch at a cafe'. A low key, no pressure meet and greet to see if there's an initial attraction/chemistry.
Category: Brunch
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cuxxxxxx

Renton, WA, USA

Go for lunch, dinner, or for drinks in a nice setting. Taking a walk around the area or just sitting and talking.
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yuxxxxxx

Duncan, BC, CAN

Whatever we agree to do that works for both of us. Maybe a walk in the park. By the river. Coffee at a cafe. Whatever you feel comfortable with where, when & how. Depending upon time and weather.
Category: Others
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Zaxxxxxx

Las Vegas, NV, USA

Keep it simple... Meet laugh n go from there... Maybe movie... Walk n talk.. very easy going guy.. fun n laughs
Category: Lunch
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Raxxxxxx

Boca Raton, FL, USA

Something we discuss and agree on, or a surprise and hope for the best, open honest discussion about each other and hopefully enjoy every moment together.
Category: Lunch
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Rexxxxxx

San Antonio, TX, USA

Any casual setting where light and meaningful conversation can be exchanged; providing the framework for our future involvement.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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loxxxxxx

West Chester, OH, USA

Candlelight Dinner followed by a leisurely walk holding hands and end the evening with hugs and kisses.
Category: Dinner
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Suxxxxxx

South Milwaukee, WI, USA

Have lunch to start to get to know one another. Afterwards a movie would be nice or go for a long drive.
Category: Lunch
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TIxxxxxx

Kissimmee, FL, USA

A brief meet up for a cup of coffee or a drink of anything you like(I can handle it).Maybe even a friendly lunch.I have only one request and it is that you come relaxed and kind.Then we will be fine!
Category: Lunch
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Kexxxxxx

Seminole, FL, USA

Dinner then walk on the beach maybe a movie or a concert talk about a possible 2nd. date. Talk about possible travrl places
Category: Dinner
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