FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Start with Zoom till the pandemic passes. Then coffee or tea out would be lovely.

drinking a good cup of coffee at a coffee shop or surprise me I'm easy to please

A simple lunch

A coffee in Starbucks on a quiet afternoon.

A nice conversation around the table in a cozi place!

My first date idea will be at the movies, I feel that will be a great moment for us both.

lunch or maybe a beverage, a walk along the lake get to know each other see if there is any chemistry, see how it goes from there

We’ll meet at any coffee house to tell if either of us has a vibe. ; we agreed beforehand to have no agenda. Plan A: Wow, he’s finer and nicer that I expected. I hope he’s interested in me. I’ll know immediately if he is. The connection is mutual. After the initial, but awkward “Phew” moment Plan B: If we don’t connect within the first few minutes, we had no commitment. It’s an easy way out for both of us. A light dinner, a walk in the park — even hang at the same coffee shop. Neither will commit either of us to an endless night if we don’t connect. I commit to myself to keeping the conversation topical. If I say too little, he might perceive that I’m uninterested in him; if I’m too much to the opposite, he may think I’m too forward and needy. If I get a positive vibe from him, I want to create a mystique if he will have any interest in me. Ahhh, assuming we’ve met briefly and agreed to a date: keep it low-key, no special agenda. Exchange a few thoughts and ideas; the rest is mutually simultaneous. I’d keep the conversation topical (and mystical) for a first date — I believe it’s necessary to save the deeper facts and conversation for potential future dates. Conversely, if I dig for too much personal information, it could backfire, making me seem needy and scare him off. It ends with my suggestion of a near future meet — if appropriate. If his response is “yes”, whether gauged orally, with a subtle, shy smile and that simultaneous eye stare, or by his head slightly shaking vertically. I’d ask for a hug and kiss. If the language is yes, I’d move in on him with a hug lasting just long enough to express that more than a casual interest exists, yet remain respectful. Once separated, I’d reach for his hand and squeeze it, man-to-man style, yet use slightly less pressure. I’d wish him a good night. Then, I’d smile just wide enough so as to lift my cheeks toward my eyes. Still smiling, I’d wink in slightly-more-than-slow more speed, turn away and go home.

dinner nice walk and talk

If we get past the in-app messaging stage, let's get on the phone, talk and laugh some, and start dreaming about what we'll do for our first date when Covid-19 restrictions end. We'll be so ready when the time comes 😄.

Dinner or Movie

i like to meet you my name is RICK lets get to know one another

handing out getting to know each other

Lunch after a nice phone chat

great conversation and a glass of wine. Then possibly a bowling game!

please call me if you 40 to 70 years young and want a some friends

Dinner, going on a walk, coffee

Going on a horseback ride and going out to dinner.

ir a cenar a un lugar cerca de una playa y disfrutar la naturalesa

At this time we can’t go out, so I guess let’s watch a Netflix movie and make out and see how it goes