FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

A coffee date No scammers: I will not give money to anyone! Attention scammers MOVE ON !!!!

drinks, dining and conversation

meeting for coffee/ tea and a scone

Meeting for lunch or dinner just getting together going for a walk just get to know each other

Go to lunch and visit! Get to know each other's likes and dislikes! Have a great time.

un café y hablar

In a nutshell: Born in '43; intelligent, financially secure and reasonably fit man seeks woman of similar characteristics within 50 miles of Gastonia. My friends say I'm humane, trustworthy and reliable. I won't insult you by being late for a get-together, and I seek reciprocity. I retired in '98 as a Sr. Scientist at a tech company. My sense of humor is keen, and, since in our society we are daily immersed in humor I'm frequently laughing--at least internally, and usually out loud! An omnivore, I eat all but turnips, parsnips and beets! I seek equality in a relationship, including, e.g., taking turns hosting dates. Things I'm passionate about are: XXX freedom & justice. I'm a libertarian (conservative fiscally, liberal socially, and non-interventionist on foreign policy issues) XXX enjoying entertainment--movies and live theater XXX volunteering: I've had three major gigs: 1) being a Compeer mentor to 6 teen boys over 22 years; 2) testing and repairing items for sale at a ReStore; and 3) teaching computer skills (since '96) to widows & divorcees, the unemployed and underemployed, as well as to battered women. I'm a teetotaler, but I am NOT opposed to drinking in moderation. It's just that I've never found any alcoholic beverage that tasted good to me. I should explicitly mention I'm allergic to cats, so if you're a cat owner, I'm afraid that's a deal-breaker.

Watching a good movie. Having a few drinks and watching the sun set.

Coffee at a nice restaurant or a drink somewhere quiet if you prefer.-------------------------------------------------

Meet coffee shop talk see if we are what each of us is looking for.

Lots of talking and getting to know eachother by the fire pit

Going for a cup of coffe to get to know each other.

Whatever my date wants!!

A long stroll in Central Park. Mainly talking and seeing if there is any chemistry, observing each other's body language. I know the word "authentic" is overused. But that's what I'll be looking for. Is this guy the real deal? Does he really care if I don't like hiking or camping, or is he faking it? (I've seen it all.). So, I hope you're up for it. No pressure!

I think meeting for lunch, your choice, my treat, would be a good way to meet.

A very loveable passionate man to fulfill my life .

Easy no pressure type of lunch.........

How about we meet for coffee or lunch at the OST or any place of your choosing and get to now one another. By the way you are a very handsome man. Lela

One of the best ways to get aquanted is do a little local road trip, just you and your new friend. Provides a one on one opportunity to casually just talk without interruption.

Would want to meet for coffee and conversation. I am shy at first but once I get to know you, I will be very open.