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Guxxxxxx

Saint-Jacques-le-Mineur, QC, CAN

Un café, une rencontre dans un parc…. Une jasette tranquille loins de gros bruit pour apprécier nos voix …. Et sentir la vibe ….
Category: Cafe
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Roxxxxxx

Gillespie, IL, USA

Just talk and have fun enjoy the night out get to know each other cookout on the grill maybe watch a movie
Category: Dinner
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ANxxxxxx

Farmingdale, NY, USA

I would like to go to a comedy show on a first date. I'm shy and nervous at first. I believe it would give us both a chance to relax. Then go somewhere else after. Maybe coffee or a drink afterwards.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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Ehxxxxxx

Albany, OR, USA

Quiet meal/coffee in a public location to break the ice overlooking the waves crashing. Then, depending how the meal/coffee went, a slow walk along the shore line.
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DAxxxxxx

La Grange, KY, USA

Nice dinner and if nice outside take a walk and talk and get to know each other and see if we both feel a connection.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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maxxxxxx
A picnic, tenpin bowling or a restaurant. I am open to suggestions. Meetings are best planned together
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LIxxxxxx

Springfield, MO, USA

Going out to eat n maybe go look at stuff at peddlers mall and talk to each other n hangout with each other some.
Category: Lunch
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JUxxxxxx

Tulsa, OK, USA

The date starts on a weekend late afternoon at a relaxed, local "hole-in-the-wall" burger spot in Tulsa. There’s no pressure to dress up in anything other than what makes you feel comfortable and confident. ​You sit at a quiet booth where the atmosphere is casual enough that you can actually hear each other speak. Over great, messy burgers and fries, the conversation flows easily. Because the environment isn't stuffy, there’s no awkward formality—just two people sharing an easy laugh and getting to know each other honestly. ​After dinner, if the chemistry is there and you both want to keep the afternoon going, you take a short, spontaneous stroll through a nearby flea market or thrift store. Walking down the aisles gives you plenty of fun, random things to talk about, keeping the vibe light, playful, and completely comfortable.
Category: Dinner
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cuxxxxxx

Seattle, WA, USA

Have coffee see if there's chemistry if we have the same outlook on life and relationships looking for a well grounded woman with a good heart.
Category: Cafe
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Erxxxxxx

Mechanicsburg, PA, USA

A quiet dinner with drinks followed by a long walk withs lots of conversation to get to know one another.
Category: Dinner
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Erxxxxxx

Blackfalds, AB, CAN

Honestly? Just go somewhere for a cup of coffee and chat. I prefer simple and inexpensive. The first date should be relaxed and easy.
Category: Cafe
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Doxxxxxx

Seongdong-gu, Seoul, KOR

마이클 잭슨 영화를 같이 보면서 그의 노래 the man in the mirror를 듣고 싶어요. 오늘 우연히 <묵자>에서 ‘군자는 물에 자신을 비추지 않고 사람에 자신을 비춘다’ 라는 말을 봤는데 반갑더군요. 엘리자베스 스트라우트 소설에서 발견되는 empathy 처럼요. 다들 좋은 짝 만나요
Category: The Movies
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Roxxxxxx

Rolling Meadows, IL, USA

First date I'll treat you to brunch, a drink or two? A nice walk with a little bit of teasing and hope you're not shy!! And if we make it to sunset, maybe we can be each other's DESERT ;¤)
Category: Brunch
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RAxxxxxx

Baltimore, MD, USA

The best date I belive should be the church not just to be entered but hear the word .then movies maybe dinner and my favorite drive around town
Category: Spiritual
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Irxxxxxx

Fort Myers, FL, USA

Let’s meet at a cozy local cafe for a great cup of coffee and a warm conversation. If the weather is nice, a gentle walk along the water or through a beautiful park afterward would be perfect. Just a relaxed, genuine way to see if the chemistry is there
Category: Errand Dating
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OLxxxxxx

Soldotna, AK, USA

I teach acrilic land scapes painting classes twice month , come say hi and learn to paint over coffee
Category: Arts and Crafts
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Jaxxxxxx

Kansas City, MO, USA

I like a candle lit dinner and I like to go for walks. I’m a romantic! I will warn you I’m not a big on going to the movies. I like comedy clubs, and things like that. I don’t mind watching movies at home. I enjoy watching karaoke.like
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Maxxxxxx

Abbott, TX, USA

I think a good first date would be a coffee date have some breakfast get to know each other. Followed by a walk. I would say going to a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu class but we can’t really talk there. Maybe for second date.
Category: Playing Sports / Games
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alxxxxxx

Houston, TX, USA

My ideal first date is something easygoing and fun — maybe a casual lunch or dinner where we can talk, laugh, and get to know each other without pressure. I enjoy simple experiences that feel natural and comfortable.
Category: Dinner
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spxxxxxx

Saint Paul, MN, USA

This date actually would be another day (after we had already met) for coffee at an off-road coffee shop or light lunch somewhere. Then we could have our official First Date .... it would be nice to attend a concert at the county fair, listen to the music, then would enjoy walking through the midway at night with the glow of the neon lights.
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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