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Just a nice lunch or dinner to get acquainted. After that I just wing it. Who wants to plan something when you may not even be compatible. I have found that sometimes you think you are not compatible but after another date you really are. You were just thinking about impressing your date the first time and not really pushing the right buttons to find out the important attributes of your date. Anyway, enough of the sociology lecture. Just be yourself!
Category: Dancing
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Coffee or a lunch date to meet first time. But if a good relationship already established, then it can be anything both of us enjoy, like a concert, sporting event or fine dining. Even a balloon ride over the desert.
Category: Cafe
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A candlelight dinner with flowers and soft music followed by a relaxed conversation under the stars. Ask questions like what is the kindest thing that you have ever done, what is the greatest gift that you have ever received, and what is the funniest thing that you have ever heard. Then state "the thing that I appreciate most about you is...."
Category: Dinner
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Open to lots of ideas - but intrigue me and you're on the right track. Maybe a movie with conversation before or after (not during!) would be a good start. Live music is a passion of mine - but I'm also good with food. Come up with something not-boring. I dare you.
Category: The Movies
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Lunch were we can talk and see If I'm worth another date? A bar for drinks ( pop, coffee) , sandwich and lots of talk would be fine. See if we have anything in common and what we have in mind for the future.
Category: Cafe
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Anywhere background noise is minimal, watch where sun goes wait for it to come back, walk along the water
Travel to bay St. Louis eat on the beach
French quarter exploring, New Orleans museum of art st Charles ave street car
Category: Others
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Meeting for coffee and conversation, would be my idea, for a first date.
I'm more interested in getting to know the person, before pursuing any further interaction.
A dinner date, is not my preference for a first meeting.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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This is a no-brainer = an outdoor music in the park concert while having a picnic. And a little dancing to the romantic tunes! On our next date, I'll let you choose the activity. Believe me, I have more interests than Anyone!
Category: Dancing
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After we get to know each other, we'd hopefully have the same idea for a first date. It could be something based on our shared interests. Or it could be something we introduce to each other because we're both willing to have a new experience.
Category: Others
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I imagine coffee or drinks and conversation at a local restaurant. Maybe dinner or lunch at a seafood place near the beach. Alternately, we could share albums or photos, listen to some live music, or trade stories of our histories.
Category: Lunch
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It would be nice to meet for lunch. Gives you the best opportunity to look at each other and see how you connect with conversation and personality. I don't like to be blindsided by someone who doesn't look like your picture. I've had that happen several times. What's the point!
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Let's get together to drink coffee or tea and talk about who we are and how we might enjoy each other's company. For me, a first date is a fun opportunity to share some broad categories of mutual interest -- who we are as well as what inspires us.
Category: Cafe
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I am a old fashioned lady, love everything beautiful in life, taking trips in the wods, camping, picnicking, traveling, reading, family time, children animals. easy going, heart full of gold, and cudeling in front of the fireplace with glass o wine. I i wS BORN AND RAISED IN EUROPE, AND STILL HAVE STRONG ACCENT.
Category: Lunch
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I'd enjoy meeting for lunch at a local restaurant where we could have a bite to eat and a nice glass of wine and get to know each other better. We could go for a little walk in the park afterwards and enjoy a good chat.
Category: Lunch
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HOW ABOUT MEETING IN THE MIDDLE OF NC AS I LIVE ON NCSC BORDER OUTSIDE CHARLOTTE ABOUT AN HOUR. NOT REAL SURE WHERE YOU LIVE AND TODAY IS NOT MY DAY...BRAND NEW SIDE BY SIDE REF./ FREEZER HAS BEEN DEAD FOR 8 DAYS AND WHIRLPOOL IS SITTING ON HANDS....A PART SOMEONE DID NOT PUT INTO IT WHEN MADE IS NOT ONLY MISSING BUT NOT LETTING ANY OF IT WORK. WAITING ON A MAN TO COME WITH PART...ER REPAIR AFTER ALMOST 2 WEEKS.. ANGRY IS UNDERSTATEMENT. LOL MOST IMPORTANT IN LIFE IS FINDING SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO SHARE LIFE WITH ME AND ME WITH HIM. SO WE NEED TO MEET SOMEWHERE THAT IS 1/2 WAY FOR BOTH. OK??? CHERYL
Category: Brunch
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Let me treat you to dinner. Maybe a spark will happen! Lets talk over a glass of wine and see if the chemistry is there. You choose the place. Somewhere you feel safe and can relax so we can get to know if it deserves a second encounter. Who knows maybe we will ready for more that first time!
Category: Dinner
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My idea of a first date would be to fly in to the dates local airport, pick her up and fly to lunch at a neat airport restaurant like that in Fredericksburg, Texas. However, my date is mature and informed enough to recognize that all men are not necessarily gentlemen and perhaps she might want to proceed with caution. I'd suggest that she pick a place for lunch in her neighborhood and bring along a trusted girlfriend to check me out as well. I'll pick up the tab. The whole reason for the process is to determine whether there will be a second date.
Category: Lunch
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I can converse on many subjects but am much more interested in listening to what others have to say as to their stories and adventures throughout their lives. Please email me with any concerns, questions, likes, dislikes, loves, frustrations, hates and anything else that will help bring us together with a better understanding of each other.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Lunch in the Loop
Category: Wine Bar
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How about spending a lunch together so we can talk and learn more about each other. Find out some of our likes and dislikes and see if we both agree that there is a possibility of this building into a relationship.
Category: Lunch
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