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coffee some where we both feel safe and comfortable. and is quiet enough to hear each other without shouting
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love a sophisticated, mid-day date that focuses entirely on great conversation and healthy living. We could meet in the early afternoon to explore a beautiful art gallery or museum exhibition together. Afterward, we would head to a quiet, upscale garden patio or terrace for a light, health-conscious lunch. As a non-smoker and non-drinker who prioritizes a fit, conscious lifestyle, a bright afternoon date is the perfect, pressure-free way for us to naturally talk, share stories, and see if our energies click.
Category: Museums and Galleries
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Something simple where we can actually talk — perhaps meeting for coffee or a drink, or having dinner at a relaxed restaurant. If we're still talking long after we planned to leave, I'd call that a pretty successful first date.
Category: Dinner
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For a first date, I’d enjoy something relaxed and fun where we can actually talk—perhaps coffee and a walk or a casual lunch.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Would love to meet you in a public place you you could be relaxed and not be under any stress …. Somewhere downtown at one of those outdoor cafes maybe …
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Meet over a cup of coffee for an intriguing conversation , share life experiences and hopefully setup a second meeting
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Coffee just to get a sense of who we are. After that I am open to walks, dinner, an event. I feel like the first meet does not need to be very long, just a meet and greet.
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have a coffee or a glass of wine--a good conversation at the table--or on a walk...would be willing to travel to meet--love driving, Happy to fly--within the country or wherever the twain shall be willing to meet!
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Going to a coffee shop, enjoying each other's company and getting to know each other with lots of laughter mixed in.
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How about meeting at the botanical gardens with snacks or down at the river for a picnic. But first how about we chat on the phone and do a zoom or face time to get a better idea how we sync together.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Well obviously, at the moment it would and should involve getting to know each other via online and possibly video chatting. After that, a "first date" could be a visit to an Art Museum, or something related, followed by a light lunch and convo, possibly a stroll in a nearby park, before heading to our individual homes, hopefully to plan the next date!
Btw, if things began to work out with a potential partner, I would of course, travel to meet them as well. That is an adventure, and part of the fun we should share. Besides, no one should have to do all the traveling...that would simply not be fair...
Category: Museums and Galleries
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For a first date, it is important to get to know one another. How else are we to decide if any chemistry is a possibility? A cozy coffee cafe or a quaint restaurant for lunch would provide a quiet environment. It would be up to us to provide the conversation and hopefully make a connection to plan future dates.
Category: Lunch
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I love to walk! Usually fast.I try to walk almost 4 days a week around 2 miles.I can be energetic or laid back.
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sit down fort phoenix in Fairhaven talk maybe walk the hurricane dike, grab a coffee or something, then maybe first date you pick or maybe ST Thomas
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Local restaurant quiet enough to talk, but possibly lively enough to hear some music. A nice walk nearby after dinner or lunch (weather permitting). We can end our date with a hug or a handshake depending on if we want a second date.
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Meet for a wine/beer/cocktail at a casual, fun, local, mutually agreed upon establishment. Quiet enough for good conversation.
Category: Drinks
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Nothing complicated—just somewhere comfortable where we can actually hear each other talk. A nice lunch or dinner, good music, perhaps a quiet café, followed by a leisurely walk if we feel like it. I want our first date to be about conversation, laughter, chemistry, and discovering whether we lose track of time together. No pressure and no expectations—just two mature people enjoying each other's company and seeing if something special begins.
Category: Dinner
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A first get together should be low key and as un-stressful as possible. Maybe coffee and a walk in a park on a weekend afternoon.
Category: Others
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I would like to just sit outside somewhere and have a chat. I enjoy having a beer on a hot day. I enjoy listening to music maybe, a place that has entertainment.
Category: Brunch
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Easy, relaxing, fun, where you can actually talk a casual sunset date take short, walk somewhere scenic, and decide whether to grab dinner
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