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Meet at Starbucks to see if we gel. If we do, my goal of a second date is to move away from the static, interview-like atmosphere of sitting directly across a table and introduce some shared movement or a new environment. This allows both of us to test your chemistry in a more relaxed, real-world setting while continuing to build comfort
Category: Cafe
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To meet in a nice restaurant and get to know each other. It might be the start of a good thing or it might not.
Category: Cafe
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I expect the first date will be a face to face meeting in a public place to get to know each other and determine if we can continue building a relationship. My first thought would be a coffee shop or a place like McDonalds or Carl's Jr. If we decide we can continue in this meeting, we can make plans for a future date, else we will go our seperate ways. So many times I've been put into a chat routine and never could get the woman to even talk about a date. My feeling is that the first date should be as soon as posible to make sure we are compatable.
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Keeping it simple. Starbucks to a nice casual atmosphere … whatever…the conversation is more important.
Category: Lunch
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Lunch or dinner and visit to Huntington Library, Museum & Botanical Gardens or Los Angeles County Museum of Art.
Category: Sightseeing
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Let's keep our first date simple so that we can get to know each other better. We should arrive separately in our own vehicle and should pick a well-lit public place such as a restaurant where we can meet for lunch or, simply coffee. It is important to be open in our conversation in order to learn more about our potential match.
Category: Lunch
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Enjoy a nicer restaurant with a good wine list. Ambiance is important. Open to variety of cuisines. Not a sushi lover
Category: Dinner
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Meet at a special restaurant, not very noisy, in a private booth. Laugh over our menu choices, try something new. Find conversation comes easily, like two old friends meeting after a long absence. Enjoy each other's company so thoroughly that staff has to remind us it's closing time. Part with a warm hug, smile all the way home.
Category: Fancy Dining
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Go out for a light lunch or a cocktail at night. Thrift shopping or a place to listen to live music. I'm open to your other suggestions aswell.
Category: Others
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I feel most comfortable in a public setting, maybe get a coffee and walk a bit. On the beach or through a park
Category: Walking or Hiking
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My experience is to start with a coffee or drink date so there is no pressure. If that goes well, I would want to move forward with a dinner date or perhaps cook dinner in my home.
Category: Lunch
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It would be lovely to have a fantastic lunch with wine. Great fun conversation, time to get to know each other and maybe a walk in a park and hopefully plan for that all important next date.
Category: Lunch
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What would you like to do? We will decide. One of my ideal first date is a nice meal at a local restaurant, talk, take a slow walk anywhere, smile, and (depending on time) home. (Maybe walk first!) If it is a good date we will do other things another day. If we are compatible, we may be good friends for a long time.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Something very casual. Perhaps meet at a cafe for lunch or a coffee bar.
Weather permitting, a walk in a park.
Category: Others
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Lunch and conversation, early dinner okay. Light conversation, the basics, getting to know each other.
Category: Lunch
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First impressions matter, but I like to keep things relaxed! A great first date for me is all about low-pressure conversation to see if we click. I’d love to meet up for a casual coffee or a drink at a nice bar—whichever you prefer—and see where a good conversation takes us.
Category: Drinks
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First we will meet for a drink. Then, if we both feel a connection, we will dine together and discuss our future plans. Ideally, it will be the beginning of a stressless and enjoyable life together.
Category: Lunch
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I think my preference for a first date would be to meet each other in my town at a restaurant and have lunch together or an early dinner chat and then goodbye. because getting to know somebody is going to take time and patience and we should try and make it fun and meet each other halfway because it’s gonna be differences we’re gonna have to compromise on if we like each other and we have to like each other first before anything gets any better there has to be chemistry without chemistry. It’s like a family member which I’ve got all the family I need.
Category: Cafe
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coffee and conversation, get to know each other's backgrounds and what the future looks like and the kind of relationship desired.
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Dinner or lunch at a place of your choice my treat! Let’s talk about our current life experience! Kisses a must!
Category: Dinner
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