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First meet maybe a cup of coffee at a cafe or a pizza at an Italian restaurant. Depends on how well we get along.
Category: Cafe
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The very first meeting should be to meet for a glass of wine or for coffee. Later, going to dinner would be desirable.
Category: Drinks
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Coffee and conversation or perhaps lunch. The second date might be a fun dinner to exchange stories and details of our lives.
Category: Lunch
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Meet in a public place where you both agree on the location, then decide whether to set a future date.
Category: Others
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Meet for coffee or a glass of wine. See if we decide to order a croissant or dinner. Chemistry is of major importance.
Category: Brunch
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Slide into a booth at River Smith's , downtown Lubbock, and watch the Red Raiders fight off Coach Morris and his Pistol Pete Cowboys in a college football game (or anybody else on the schedule). By halftime, you can slide out and then out the door or stay for the second half, we will both know by halftime what its going to be.
Category: Cafe
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Want to start off getting to know you.
My experience from 25 years ago, is that I will know in the first five minutes whether we are compatible.
Category: Drinks
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Would like my match to choose, not because I can't, I would like her to feel comfortable and relaxed.
Category: Others
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I am looking for friendship, so I would prefer to meet at a good coffee place, not too noisy, so we can have a good conversation.
Category: Others
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Open to meeting anywhere in Europe for good food and drink and a pleasant social get together with a like minded lady.
Category: Lunch
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A charming waterfront café, a leisurely lunch, some interesting conversation and plenty of laughter. Perhaps a stroll along the lake afterward if we're enjoying each other's company. Nothing too formal or rehearsed. Just two people getting to know one another, with a little chemistry and the possibility that neither of us is quite ready for the afternoon to end.
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Let's meet for coffee and talk. If we don't like it, we can walk away. Hopefully, we will keep talking and arrange to meet again for a nice meal and an event or to ride bikes, walk/hike.
Category: Cafe
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Something simple and relaxed: coffee or dinner where we can really talk, with no rush. I’d love to hear your story, share a few of mine, and just get to know each other. Good conversation and a few laughs are all I need. Then we’ll see where it goes.
Category: Dinner
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Time to share our interests with each other and hopefully connect in our goals. I believe in chemistry so it would be a chance to see what might be there.
Category: Cafe
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The first date is about getting to know each other, that means communication. And what better way to communicate than over a taisty meal in a warm environment. After learning that we have enough values/perspectives in common to enjoy each other's company, we can explore activities and learn more deaply about each other.
Category: Lunch
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I would love to start with a casual meeting place and good conversation. See if we are mutually attracted to each other in person. Hand holding and affection.
Category: Cafe
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Restaurant, Coffee Shop or Cafe.
I want it to feel Comfortable!
I want to Laugh, have an Interesting Easy Conversation with you, nothing too heavy.
Category: Cafe
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Meet for coffee or tea at a cafe etc for example Starbucks or a diner somewhere public but safe and comfortabe
Category: Cafe
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A Candlelight dinner at the Moonraker Inn followed by a relaxing walk on the beach. Oh, damn, that was when I lived in Pacifica!
I forgot, I've been living in Santa Fe for the last 11 years. How 'bout GiG Performance Space for a concert and then you choose the nightcap? And, what would that be?
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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Maybe a sunset dinner cruise on the Sarasota bay... Then drinks at one of the cities great views overlooking the city and waterways.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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