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BIxxxxxx

Choctaw, OK, USA

Find something that we both may enjoy eating. Buy it prepare it together and cook it ourselves. I am very much open to trying new things.
Category: Culinary Adventures
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VRxxxxxx

Banning, CA, USA

My ideal first date would be a nice lunch or dinner, not necessarily fine dining or candlelit. After that I would like to go for a walk on a beach or through a park, talking and getting to know each other better.
Category: Lunch
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Juxxxxxx

Eden Prairie, MN, USA

Go for a long walk and then treat her to a dinner of her choice. And if she wants, get a drink , even if she only wants coffee.
Category: Dinner
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enxxxxxx

Alajuela, Provincia de Alajuela, CRI

Tomar un cafecito, hablar de todo un poquito, para conocernos, y saber más sobre gustos y preferencias, formas de pensar.
Category: Others
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Bexxxxxx

Saint Paul, MN, USA

A quiet place to talk get to know each other. To determine if this is a good match. Sometimes the best moments are
Category: Cafe
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WIxxxxxx
I would like to go someplace relaxing to enjoy a meal and maybe a cocktail, then go to a movie theater.
Category: Lunch
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Sixxxxxx

Worcester, MA, USA

Dinner, but not too fancy! There's always a possibility of something more fancy in the future, but not for the first date. Near the ocean is always nice to me, but anywhere where the vibe is relaxed, leaving us to talk comfortably and at ease.
Category: Dinner
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maxxxxxx

Stockton, CA, USA

First dates should be a simple coffee date to establish whether a connection can exist. although we will both be nervous we can still assess if there is a chance at good conversation, and/or attraction. At the very least it’s always nice to meet new people whether we decide to leave it at a coffee chat or move into lunch or even more, has to first start with that first meeting.
Category: Cafe
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lyxxxxxx

North Platte, NE, USA

A picnic at a park or Beach with shrimp, champagne, cheese and crackers. Or, I'd be glad to take you to a restaurant as winter is closing in.
Category: Brunch
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JExxxxxx

Nassau, NY, USA

Well, well, well, let's see how can I say this without sounding a little crae crae.... Here it goes: Bond Connection is naturally immediate and acknowledge by both of us.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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LAxxxxxx

White House, TN, USA

Something engaging, where you can talk and learn about each other. Walking around an art festival, museum, sightseeing, Pool, darts, Top Golf, putt putt.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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lixxxxxx

Hermosa Beach, CA, USA

My ideal first date would be a lovely brunch or coffee overlooking the ocean, followed by a relaxing walk along the beach. I enjoy good conversation, laughter, and getting to know someone naturally. It's not about how expensive the date is, but the connection, chemistry, and quality time we share. A little romance and a beautiful ocean view would make it even more special!
Category: Cafe
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Nexxxxxx

Lafayette, LA, USA

Ideally it would be a candle lit dinner on the beach at the perfect time to be able to watch the sunset.
Category: Dinner
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enxxxxxx

Alajuela, Provincia de Alajuela, CRI

Salir a tomar un cafecito y conversar de temas varios, para poder conocernos un poquito más, con el fin de saber que tan compatibles somos.
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jaxxxxxx

Elwood, VIC, AUS

A long urban walk through Melbourne suburbs, with a lovely lunch somewhere place quirky & quiet! I don't know the area well, but Melbourne has some awesome & interesting places to see (so I've heard!).
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Jexxxxxx

Covina, CA, USA

My idea of a perfect first date is something simple and relaxed, like meeting at a cozy coffee shop, enjoying a good cup of coffee, sharing a few laughs, and having a genuine conversation. No pressure, no expectations, and no awkward formalities. I'm simply looking to make a new friend and enjoy good company. If we connect and enjoy each other's company, wonderful! Sometimes the best friendships begin over a simple cup of coffee.
Category: Cafe
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Anxxxxxx

White Plains, NY, USA

Perhaps meeting for coffee or lunch, taking a walk, or sharing a nice dinner at a cozy restaurant. I'd enjoy good conversation, a few laughs, and learning about each other's lives, interests, and faith. The goal wouldn't be to impress one another, but to see if there's a genuine connection and to enjoy each other's company.
Category: Lunch
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Roxxxxxx

Roseville, CA, USA

Maybe a phone call first to make sure we are compatible and then either a drink or coffee to see if we click and like each other and there is a connection!
Category: Drinks
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Tixxxxxx

Axtell, TX, USA

My ideal first date would be something relaxed, romantic, and full of good conversation. I'd love to meet at a cozy restaurant or a charming café where we can enjoy a delicious meal, share a few laughs, and get to know each other without feeling rushed. Perhaps afterward, we could take a leisurely walk, watch the sunset, or enjoy a little scenic drive. I'm also open to something fun and spontaneous, like exploring a new place or listening to live music together. For me, it's not about how expensive or extravagant the date is; it's about the connection, the chemistry, and the joy of discovering someone special. If we leave smiling and looking forward to seeing each other again, then that's my idea of a perfect first date.
Category: Dinner
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ROxxxxxx

Saint Paul, MN, USA

Actually open to anything, dinner with easy conversation, hiking, video games, dog walking, if you voted Republican just keep on moving. I have morals.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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