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Getting to know a person over coffee and conversation
Category: Lunch
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A nice lunch and a stroll afterwards...something simple
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Should be something casual like a diner for lunch and conversation and if we don't feel that a second date is in order then that would be fine no hard feelings here you can never have enough friends these days
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Just meet for coffee or lunch and talk. To me, to start slow is the best way. We should take time to talk...maybe an hour or so....and time to reflect afterwards. I firmly believe that the best relationships develop over time. On a second date, I like to do something outdoors....in a casual, informal setting that also allows time to know each other. To me, the worst type of first date is to go to a movie, club or event where it isn't really possible to engage with my companion.
Category: Cafe
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I would want to feel you out, not literally: but see if we were companionable in conversation before actually meeting. I would then meet in public place for perhaps lunch ( on you of'course" lol) I like movies , maybe later a meal and dinner, or show, or the arts..???
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Dinner or lunch at a location in Indianapolis indiana then a walk on canal if time available.
Category: Dinner
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I would like a first date at a cafe or coffee shop - not very original - but more comfortable and less intimidating. We would be able to relax and find out more about each other and see if we have common interests.
Category: Cafe
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We could go to lunch, a picnic at a winery, bowling, or just for a drink or coffee.
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Just getting to know one another over coffee or a quiet meal.
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Coffee and chatter. See where it goes from there...There's a Denny's on Monterey we could meet because I take the bus.
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Since everything I like tends to be outdoors, my perfect first date would be an hour of birding (you pick the spot), biking or tennis. I'm OK with that being followed by coffee or lunch, but you need to be a conversationalist. I'm small talk challenged.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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How about a hike or walk and if all goes well follow up with coffee and a chat. Unless of course you happen to have a farm, in which case we should clean the barn or do something useful.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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I have no ideal so I guess coffee or dinner or even a park. A place where we can visit and get to know each other. Yes I guess I am a cheap date. lol
Category: Others
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How about a walk around Evergreen Walk (the little city) and stop for coffee or wine. It's a nice way to get to know someone. Can always stop by LLBean..
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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Being that I live abroad, the first date would be on-line, but- should someone be over here on a trip, or I over the pond there, I'd like to meet for a nice glass of wine in the early evening and on a terrace. I know I'd be nervous, as it has been a loooong time since my last date, but I hope my date would understand that. Then conversation.
Category: Drinks
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How about we meet for dinner and get to know each other.
Category: Dinner
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Eclairs would be fun......oops, I mean steamed lettuce leaves w a squeeze of lemon. And one or two of those terriblebutdelicious Caribbean blue Margeritas to wash em down.
Category: Cafe
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Any place that you like and feel safe and comfortable,coffee, dinner whatever works for you.
Category: Fancy Dining
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sad but true, I would like a place where one can hear yourself speak, so no thumping music
Category: Lunch
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We would go to a small intimate restaurant, with a quite atmosphere allowing us to get to know one another. The food would be both unique and taste wonderful. A walk along a river or lake, maybe at a beach would be delightful.
Category: Culinary Adventures
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