FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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hi to you, my outlook is positive and adventurous. done a lot of traveling, raised two beautiful kids and now i'm a grandfather. geez...i love the ocean and am a mindfull person. also a lifelong music junkie.
Category: Lunch
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How about a nice lunch and conversation? Get to know a little about eachother. If there is chemistry we will know it. Maybe a nice walk afterward. If all goes well, we can make a plan for a second meetup?
If distance makes an in person first date difficult, perhaps a FaceTime first date?
Category: Lunch
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Retired veterinarian.
Dinner at one of our Greenspring restaurants would be a good first meeting. I live in Forest View with a great cat and a balcony overlooking the woods. Nice spot for coffee or wine.
Category: Dinner
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Coffee date with good conversation. If that goes well and we both agree we would like to meet again then possibly a good dinner and listen to some music or go to a movie. Possibly go for a walk or go for a drive and do some sightseeing.
Category: Pets
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A cup of coffee, a glass of wine or a cold beer at an outdoor cafe is a nice way to meet for the first time. Nothing like sunshine and good conversation. I think we'll know if we click after that meeting.
Category: Cafe
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How about brunch, lunch or dinner with a glass of wine and maybe even a movie. If it is springtime or summertime, a nice walk downtown Santa Fe and stopping for coffee or breakfast would be great too.
Category: Dinner
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Some place doing something that we mutually enjoy. Where and doing what "we" are comfortable doing, feeling natural about being together, sharing, and at the end our date knowing it's just the beginning of a wonderful journey.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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go for dinner or lunch then go for a walk or somewhere we can talk to get to know each other we could go to the boat launch look at the water or a coffee shop so many place to go ,.................................................,.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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I don't even like the idea of putting anything under a category called "dating". I feel that I am a bit beyond utilizing that word. It gives me the shivers. I prefer a nice walk or hike and conversational learning experience. I would like to get to know another person who savors the beauty of this Earth. I would like to know more about your journey in this life and where you think you are going in the future. I would simply like to hear your voice, see the twinkle in your eye and learn about your experiences and loves. Yes, listen to me too as I share and we walk as my pup runs along in front of us. Hmmm...Sweet.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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For a first meeting I would like to have either lunch or a coctail and see how we hit it off. If all goes well then for a first date might I suggest a nice dinner out followed by a nice walk and conversation.
Category: Dinner
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Take a casual walk along the Charles, breathe in the beautiful sun, air, harmony.. Share a glass of wine. outdoors@ the Charles Hotel backyard while engaged in light, engaging, inspiring conversation..
Category: Drinks
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Start with Mimosas and swapping bad dad jokes.
Share your favorite travel adventures.
Tell Stories of your most memorable and embarrassing moments.
Tell each other about your past life and goals for the future.
Let it be real.
Hope laughter ignites a wonderful relationship!
Category: Brunch
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Our first date should be somewhere we both feel at home. A lunch, a dinner, a movie, Sunday Church or even a park bench, if the weather permits. Our comfort zone is where we have the best chance of eventually falling in love.
Category: Spiritual
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Meet for breakfast in a Cafe & get to know each other. Talk over coffee & see if we're compatible.. Maybe go down to the beach & take a quiet walk. Looking for the same family values beliefs. Take it from there.
Category: Cafe
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Go out to nice romantic dinner. Then maybe a movie or just nice walk or even sitting around talking and looking into your eyes. Wanting to know as much as I can. Mainly seeing if our chemistry blends.
Category: Dinner
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I have never liked first meetings in a crowded and loud Starbucks coffee cafe, where it's difficult to maintain a conversation. I would rather get to know you during a slow-paced meal with cocktails in a cozy restaurant. I especially enjoy ethnic restaurants, with fun atmosphere. My favorites include Greek, German, Japanese, and Mexican dining.
Category: Dinner
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I would enjoy for coffee or drinks and a chat. We could take a walk and talk. We could sit in a natural area and. chat. It would be terrific if we would find that we have so much fun talking that it is hard to say "goodbye".
Category: Drinks
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How about we go to a Planetarium or sightseeing around Colorado? 🪐 I love going to live theater plays too. Do you have any ideas in mind, or we can have a picnic among the wildflowers? Play Pickleball?
Category: Others
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Pick your favorite cuisine or favorite dish that you had in a restaurant and were crazy about and I will make it for us from scratch paired with the perfect wine, cocktail or even beer and finish it off with a decadent but light dessert. I will just need a day to shop and prepare.
Category: Fancy Dining
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I enjoy getting to know people and I especially enjoy good conversation over an equally good glass of wine. I like the idea of no distractions and just focusing on getting to know the person I'm with.
Category: Cafe
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