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Anxxxxxx

Orlando, FL, USA

Lunch, dinner or maybe a good coffee. Watch a concert would be another good first date as well, so we could enjoy a little bit of nice music. I am not really into loud places, or super crowded ones, makes me feel overwhelmed.
Category: Dinner
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Saxxxxxx

Lake Park, GA, USA

Dinner and drinks at a restaurant or lounge we choose, Or dinner and a movie. The main thing is that we decide on where we would like to meet up for the first time, So while we are getting to know each other here we can talk about what we both would enjoy for our first meeting, or date so to speak.
Category: Dinner
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maxxxxxx

Roxbury, MA, USA

Keeping it simple/sweet snack & a beverage to your taste. Walk for a chat to get to know you better, communicating is important to greet & meet depending on the time and weather is best. success depends on you!
Category: Dancing
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Mexxxxxx

Montrose, CA, USA

A casual walk with good conversation on a nice day. We could look at the shops and grab a tea down on Honlulu. Let's get to know each other while get outside and enjoying the town. There is also a lovely bookstore we could browse for conversation starters.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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doxxxxxx

Terre Haute, IN, USA

coffee, conversation, easy and light at first.. its a good way to get to know a little about the person. maybe a dinner. Its important to have a casual meeting and see if there is chemistry. Its important to have chemistry if looking for a relationship, especially a lasting one.
Category: Cafe
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jaxxxxxx

Boyertown, PA, USA

A casual lunch with conversation then afterwards a stroll. Looking at shops and possibly visit a museum or a point of interest. Walk in a park sit and talk on a bench. Maybe walk around a lake or waterfront by a river.
Category: Cafe
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Dexxxxxx
I feel people must meet face to face to know if there is a mutual attraction and agree each would like to pursue a relationship that can be long lasting or forever. I am sincere and honest and will never lead a woman on, I have a lot of adventures and love to share.
Category: Cafe
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Lixxxxxx

Iloilo City, Western Visayas, PHL

Can we have coffee for a start, in a nice, cozy cafe with jazz music in the background. If the company is delightful we could proceed to a walk in the park with lush green scenery and beautiful flowers.
Category: Cafe
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Rixxxxxx

South Lyon, MI, USA

A first date would probably be a nice dinner in a place that we could talk and listen to each other then go from there. We can meet at a place of your choice. We can discuss whatever you'd like. I'm an open book. Would like to know as much about you as you care to share.
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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Chxxxxxx

Litchfield, CT, USA

I would like to meet for coffee, somewhere convenient for both, just for a short period of time. This way we can see if there is any chemistry or not. I have not dated in years and enjoy a simple setting.
Category: Cafe
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moxxxxxx

Minnetonka, MN, USA

First date should probably involve food. I will pay my own way. Typing sucks. Not interested in giving out my phone number, so I like a public location. Cheers. Forty more words required and I am out of things to say.
Category: Lunch
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Suxxxxxx

Southport, NC, USA

I would rather go for a drink or a coffee at a nice outdoor cafe rather than going to lunch or dinner. It's hard to talk and get to know someone while eating and with waiters interrupting you! A second or third date is fine for lunch or dinner though.
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Alxxxxxx

Galion, OH, USA

I like to stay at home and sometimes enjoy each other company. Listen to music or watch a good movie together. Cook, have a quite dinner, maybe a drink. Discuss the days events, maybe take a walk or sit on the porch.
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Daxxxxxx

Covington, LA, USA

"First Date" I would assume to mean AFTER you've had the initial coffee or lunch. I like the idea of a block party or festival when the streets are closed off to vehicular traffic. With a big party atmosphere with adult beverages and snacks where you can stroll for hours. Or a nice dinner at a small Italian restaurant with romantic music playing in the background.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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Gexxxxxx

Chico, CA, USA

I love dinner and a play, or a movie.... or a concert. Love to be able to talk and get to know you. I also like walks with my dog in the area parks. I do like being outdoors and by a lake or the ocean.
Category: Dinner
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shxxxxxx

Washington, PA, USA

Let's have a morning coffee date. Next time a walk at a local park. I know many great places to hike or kayak, Or maybe a scenic drive. Someday dinner at my house, I love to cook. I would love to share the joy of traveling.
Category: Cafe
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yoxxxxxx

Blaine, MN, USA

I think a nice first date would start with us crafting a fancy cocktail, then I would make you dinner. We could choose to go to a restaurant, but I would like it to be quiet so I could hear what you have to say. After dinner, we'll go for a walk and talk a bit more.
Category: Dinner
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Frxxxxxx

Overland Park, KS, USA

Let's meet for a light lunch, go for a walk in an area park. If you'd rather, we could attend one of the free summer concerts and enjoy the outdoors and people watching. Or, we could meet at the Arboretum, stroll the grounds and go from there.
Category: Lunch
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Goxxxxxx

Kalamazoo, MI, USA

A walk in the park or a nature preserve followed by dinner this summer. might be a good start. I like to organize and plan things, but would welcome other ideas as well. . A walk along the beach especially at sunset is a nice idea as well. I'm appreciative of Lake Michigan but prefer to stay on shore. Tenderfoot when it comes to cruises. Enjoying new experiences together could be really fun.
Category: Drinks
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Blxxxxxx

Albuquerque, NM, USA

As I am a non driver,I'd choose a nice local quiet non pretentious (that eliminates Starbucks!) cafe for a coffee (or two) while we talk, and find out what our chances might be,either as a friend....or more should there be that 'connection'.
Category: Cafe
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