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Pretty simple really a quiet place to enjoy a nice conversation if all goes well we can plan a date together.
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There is no beach here sadly........at big garden coffee cafe......not a mall....
Or a nice cocktail......somewhere relaxing
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Grab a drink at a local cafe and take a stroll through a nearby park. This flexible setup keeps conversation flowing naturally. Let's enjoy a comfortable, low-pressure environment
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I enjoy sports when and where possible. I would also love visiting the Santa Cruz Boardwalk, or a local beach, with dinner near the sea and a stroll in the moonlight.
Category: Sporting Events
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I’m very flexible. Coffee is fine, if that’s what you like.
I’m also up for a ‘Rita and an Appetizer, good conversation, or a park setting is the weather cooperates.
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Get a snowball and take a walk if it's warm. If it's cold go to a coffee shop then check out a thrift store.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Let’s meet for a casual coffee or a glass of wine at a local bistro to see if we have that natural spark.
Category: Drinks
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A simple cup of coffee/tea. I prefer to keep initial meet ups very casual so no one feels pressure if we don't click
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Meeting for coffee or a walk sounds great for a first meeting. Would love to communicate by text or email to get to know each other.
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Spending good time together and share everything about us . walking and holding hands , sharing about the future
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I would like to have dinner in a nice restaurant. I prefer western food because Chinese restaurant is usually more noisy.
Category: Dinner
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I would enjoy meeting for a nice lunch or coffee in a relaxed setting where we can get to know each other.
Category: Lunch
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Maybe brunch, followed by something casual like the park. Some times a nice drive through the country, or around town can be enjoyable.
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I think sitting across from one another over coffee is a good first date. If the conversation is enjoyable, both people can decide next steps.
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I prefer relaxed conversation at a nice, quiet restaurant, then Cold Stone or Culver's Frozen Custard for dessert (every evening is warm here) than a coffee meet.
Category: Dinner
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To start let's meet and greet at a coffee shop. We can talk a bit to see if there are any flames or even sparks.
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A nice dinner and wine in a comfortable quiet establishment. Where it’s quite enough to talk to and learn about each other.
Or as a first meeting if she were more comfortable with coffee or just cocktails. If understand that view.
If a fellow golfer, 18 holes, stop at the 19th hole and dinner! Be a full day.
Category: Dinner
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Take a 30 minute walk on a public trail to determine if we are compatible in any way. if we are not, then it was a nice 30 minute walk!
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Walk on the beach see if we even like each others company or maybe go crabbing off the North jetty and then we can cook/eat them.
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After an initial coffee meet up, my favorite first dates are ones involving activities, like pool or ping pong or bowling, even shuffleboard (that's a thing now apparently), festivals, art events, anything that promotes conversation in a not stiff way.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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