FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Flowers dinner and a nice walk on the beach

Meet up and chat maybe a meal

Meet n greet

I would like to meet for a coffee or pub meal to talk about each other

First a little walk in the park then go to his place and dress up with some sexy skin tight spandex and a miniskirt or some nylons maybe and see what happens. Pink is my favorite color.

Taking a walk outside and then spending the night with my man and see what happens

Meeting for a coffee or a beer. Chatting to see if we click.

Getting to know each other via chats

Going to lunch or dinner to talk and get to know each other.

Nice dinner in a quite restaurant. Taking a walk.

Meeting over coffee or a place not to noisy.

Holiday breakfast brunch, good converdation, nice walk........cool piano bar and drinks would work well!

Something we both agree to.

My first date would be to go for a leisurely lunch at a nice country pub and enjoy a nice stroll after our meal.

A nice dinner for starters, to see if we even like each other, then go from there.

Getting together for coffee or whatever,and getting to know a little about each other

A cocktail

I believe in meeting causally for coffee to see if our chemistry matches.

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To be decided together.