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HAxxxxxx

Sarasota, FL, USA

Maybe a sunset dinner cruise on the Sarasota bay... Then drinks at one of the cities great views overlooking the city and waterways.
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Drxxxxxx

La Crosse, WI, USA

Dinner by the river and then take a stroll along the river which eventually leads to a walk downtown to enjoy some laughs and a drink or 2 at a cocktail bar.
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Texxxxxx

Dallas, TX, USA

Meeting for a late afternoon coffee where the conversation is easy and fun. Deciding we don’t want the day to end and the man I’m with suggests a casual dinner at a rooftop cozy place he knows. I’m all in.
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JAxxxxxx

Lady Lake, FL, USA

A side road to a waterfall, a walk on the shore to watch the sun set a walk through the back streets of Venice or the sound of the waves after a fine meal and conversation.
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Kaxxxxxx

New Smyrna Beach, FL, USA

Fabulous picnic basket for dinner on the beach followed by a romantic walk, holding hands and making sneaking in that first kiss.
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Hexxxxxx

Brooklyn, NY, USA

After an initial coffee meet up, my favorite first dates are ones involving activities, like pool or ping pong or bowling, even shuffleboard (that's a thing now apparently), festivals, art events, anything that promotes conversation in a not stiff way.
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asxxxxxx

El Shorouk, Cairo Governorate, EGY

I respect your opinion, but do you watch pictures and videos before making your decision?For everyone, this is what I'm looking for and want. Let's agree, I don't care about your opinion. Life is short and real opportunities are very rare, so my comments on photos and posts will be the same because I know what I want.
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JIxxxxxx

Plymouth, MN, USA

We decide what works best for both of us. I'm open to something adventurous, mysterious and mischievous at the same time.
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Rixxxxxx

Prescott, AZ, USA

Whatever the lady suggests. I would be happy with a walk at the square together, going out for a bite, sitting at home and watching a movie, etc.
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Shxxxxxx

Thomasville, GA, USA

Wine and a good meal along with good conversation. Then maybe a walk in the park. Then whatever comes next.
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juxxxxxx

New Haven, IN, USA

I am thinking about something casual, maybe a bite to eat at a local pub, followed by a walk or a game of some sort.
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JUxxxxxx

Gilmer, TX, USA

Maybe miniature golf. A motorcycle ride in the country. Sight see. Or an outside concert. Surprises are always exciting.
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Shxxxxxx

Aurora, CO, USA

My ideal first date is somewhere comfortable enough for a real conversation—perhaps coffee, a leisurely lunch, or a glass of wine. Nothing elaborate or overly structured. I want us to have time to talk, laugh, discover what interests us, and see whether that wonderful combination of intellectual, emotional, and physical chemistry begins to emerge. If we find ourselves losing track of time and neither of us is quite ready for the evening to end, I would consider that a very successful first date.
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chxxxxxx

Toronto, ON, CAN

I am a very good listener. So therefore I like to chat and get to know each other. Have a nice glass of wine with a romantic dinner.
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odxxxxxx

Aurora, IL, USA

Dinner restaurant by the waterfront ,or Chinatown,date,movies, theater plays,concert,jazz or comedy club, winery , small boat Ride, museum ,art gallery,, travel, allergic to shrimps scallops crabs lobster seafood
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KIxxxxxx

Lebanon, MO, USA

Candles and diffuser, anything that smells good, a little romance, good conversation, good telling jokes and receiving them. A great kisser, the secret to my heart ❤️
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Bixxxxxx

Parker, CO, USA

If it is here in Denver, Colorado, first I would like to take my date out to a nice restaurant, like Hacienda Colorado so we can talk and get to know each other. Then, go for a stroll through downtown Denver. There is a beautiful walkway that starts at the Highland pedestrian bridge,where you can walk across the I-70 freeway near Elitch Gardens. Then you keep going down the walkway where you cross 16th Street and then there is another pedestrian bridge that crosses the Platt river. You can see the rides from Elitch Gardens all lit up from this viewpoint. Walk just a little further and you will be standing at the Denver Millennium Bridge, which was designed to give the impression that you are on on old fashioned sail ship and you are on the top deck. There are no sails, just one giant mast with long cable stays, that fan out from the mast to help with this illusion. At night they light the mast in different colors for about 10 seconds at a time. This is a very romantic setting, and this to me would be a perfect first date.
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rhxxxxxx

Dallas, TX, USA

A first date could be a musical or play or simply a good pub with darts and pool. I’m no good at either. But I love playing. A nice dinner with good conversation is also a good go to.
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MRxxxxxx

Saint Augustine, FL, USA

Just something simple no pressure maybe a lite dinner beverage of your choosing and then just see where the conversation takes us. If we stay at the little outside diner or we take a walk and enjoy the nite.
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Adxxxxxx

Elon, NC, USA

Keep it simple. Let's grab a dessert and go for a walk in the city or simple sit and talk on a cool summers night. Good excuse to have a cheat day.
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