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GIxxxxxx

Montgomery, NY, USA

First date means coffee to me. Meeting outside the cafe to get the first impression visuals, sense of presence, approaching smiles. Sitting across from each other, ease of chat, vibes, chemistry. Followed by a walking chat for assessment of physical presence. Ending with an honest post-date debrief.
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Roxxxxxx

Madison, AL, USA

I think we should get to know each other first and become comfortable with each other. Then we can move on to a meal and continue our conversations. Then move onto a day trip or an event that we would both enjoy. All the while continuing to learn more about each other.
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Doxxxxxx

Florence, OR, USA

A wonderful candle light dinner , prepared by me , followed by a massage , then a intimate bubble bath , finally a romantic interlude w/ fantastic love making !
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anxxxxxx

San Diego, CA, USA

Exploring a new restaurant, visiting a beautiful place, or taking a leisurely walk followed by coffee. Something relaxed, fun, and easy enough for us to talk and get to know each other.
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Waxxxxxx

Chula Vista, CA, USA

Present with each other. I love movies and such but this date is about getting to know each other. What would we do? We'd talk about it...maybe each of us has favorite places or that place or thing always wanted to try.
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msxxxxxx

Hixson, TN, USA

Dinner or just hanging out on the sun porch - I love weekend trips and just need my partner in crime to enjoy life with!
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Suxxxxxx

Niceville, FL, USA

Something that both of us like. Someplace we can talk and listen. Walking by the water after lunch would be great. I also like the idea of a picnic. Would you push me on the swings or swing beside me? Would you take me fishing? Someplace with some shade and a pole in the water while we talk and share ideas?
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Gexxxxxx

Southgate, MI, USA

I have a few ideas: 1) Bicycle ride and lunch 2) Casual Pickleball game and lunch 3) Walk and ice cream or coffee or 4)Lunch at an interesting restaurant 5) Whatever you may feel comfortable with.
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jjxxxxxx

Palos Hills, IL, USA

Going out to dinner or just taking a walk on the beach if it's nice outside. Also, enjoy going to concerts.
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Lixxxxxx

Phoenixville, PA, USA

Since I have not met my date, I prefer to meet in an environment that I am comfortable in like a coffee shop or quiet Cafe so that we can talk and get to know each other a little more. If I feel there might be a spark, take a walk through a local park tor through town.
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Arxxxxxx

Council Bluffs, IA, USA

Confering to what the lady wants first and then agreeing where to go. Do not mind going to movies or walking or just a cup of coffee at home with conversation.
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PAxxxxxx

Danville, KY, USA

Meeting for a nice dinner. Strolling in a park, Watching Sunset, enjoying each other company, Laughing and talking.
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KExxxxxx

Littleton, CO, USA

Probably the first few dates go out and get some coffee. Something real easy casual. A nice place and the way we can get to know each other I guess.
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MIxxxxxx

New River, AZ, USA

Sitting on a beach bottle of wine 2 glasses 🥂 and talking, getting to know each other. No better way.
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Mtxxxxxx

Greenville, SC, USA

We meet up for a coffee or café house. We embrace another. We connect /vibe our hearts together in our conversations. We go walking together your hand in mine. We explore the places and scene around us ..it may be crowded but we only feel each other's presence. We leave as we feel comfortable, like we known one another for awhile, to your place. We relax..talk..we cuddle closer..I lean in to kiss gently your tender soft lips..you breath harder..I continue to kiss your neck ..caressing your face and hair...then...? Let's find out together when we get to meet here.
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shxxxxxx

Red Deer, AB, CAN

love gym, running, walking, reading, relaxing, and sharing same thoughts, ideas and sometimes new different things to know.
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Toxxxxxx

Queens, NY, USA

The beach at night, love rain and any weather, like trying new drinks and food or places, solve problems pretty good
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muxxxxxx

Little River, SC, USA

For a first meet, a walk on the beach would be nice ... or coffee somewhere ... Snooky's on the beach is fun for happy hour, if the weather cooperates.
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saxxxxxx

McKinney, TX, USA

A man who plans a thoughtful date instantly gets my attention. Dinner at a cozy restaurant, followed by a walk, live music, or even a fun game of pickleball would be a wonderful start. Great conversation and lots of laughter are the perfect ingredients
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Msxxxxxx

St Louis, MO, USA

Every first date will depend on the connection. We need to find something mutually fun/outrageous/unique/sweet/memorable
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