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Something engaging, where you can talk and learn about each other. Walking around an art festival, museum, sightseeing, Pool, darts, Top Golf, putt putt.
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Coffee at a cozy café, a relaxed lunch, or a walk somewhere scenic—somewhere we can talk, laugh, and get to know each other. For me, good company matters more than anything fancy.
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A walk in a public place. This could be a stroll in a natural setting, or coffee or a drink in a restaurant.
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Dinner, walk someplace to share & learn more about each other. This would be a great start for both of us.
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A charming waterfront café, a leisurely lunch, some interesting conversation and plenty of laughter. Perhaps a stroll along the lake afterward if we're enjoying each other's company. Nothing too formal or rehearsed. Just two people getting to know one another, with a little chemistry and the possibility that neither of us is quite ready for the afternoon to end.
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I’m open to any venue where we can have pleasant conversation and get to know one another. The venue is not important to me. My focus will be on the person I am with.
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Meeting up at a coffee house or cocktail place would be a good environment to explore common interests and exchange ideas. We could learn what our passions are and where we see us headed ...without sounding like a job interview!
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The setting for a perfect first date isn't set in stone; it could truly happen anywhere, as the company is what matters most. That said, I often envision it starting in the late afternoon, meeting up at a cozy local coffee shop or a quiet bistro to break the ice and share a few laughs over a warm drink. From there, we’d head to a historic independent theater or a matinee screening to catch a great film—whether that's a timeless classic, a compelling documentary, or an old Hollywood musical—all while sharing a giant bowl of popcorn. Afterward, we would take a leisurely, peaceful walk through a well-lit downtown park or main street, eventually settling into a comfortable restaurant for a nice dinner and a great bottle of wine. It’s a wonderful, low-pressure way to talk about the movie, dive into deep conversation, and see if our shared rhythms click.
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Dinner at the restaurant and walking side by side traveling to my birthplace and visits the beautiful spots together
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I would prefer to meet and talk, so maybe not over a meal. Perhaps take a stroll through an outdoor mall, park or beach.
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I'm pretty easy going whatever the moment tells us different days have different taste buds. The key is just be together. Enjoy the moment.
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I'd suggerst the Culver Steps. A very cool spot in LA. But I also love to drive - open the sunroof, the window and crank up the music, so I'm happy to go anywhere that my first date would feel good. And for me it's all about talking. Talking about everything and anything. Politics. Our kids. What really matters in our lives. And then some jokes. Maybe walking a bit. Or anywhere - the beach, sure. On a bench. It doesn't matter, really. It's connecting. That's what I love And then there's the other part about a first date. When one (or the other) knows it isn't the right fit. How to talk through that with care. We're all trying to find someone. We all want to help eachother. It's not easy, that part - telling someone (or being told). But that's happening so that one day we're bother able to say to someone - yes - yes - yes!!
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Basically, I think/believe that such date ought to be all about an absolute attempt to get to know each other or one another....
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Someplace where we could talk and not feel rushed. I do love the outdoors, gardens and sights that WOW me.
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Most Importantly You Must Love Dogs and Wildlife. We Will Talk On The Phone Then Decide. Possibly We Can Go To The Boardwalk In Niantic or The Casino. Whatever We Agree On.
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Chai tea/coffee in a cozy coffee shop. If the chemistry is felt by both, we'll plan our next date together
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"A long lunch where we lose track of time swapping stories. I've got a few decades' worth, and I'd like to hear yours."
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Somewhere we can have a very nice meal and speak honestly about anything, and be our selves.........
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Up for just about anything appropriate . Gettin familiar is most important . Where , when, how , how long , what to do really matters naught
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