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putt-putt. always disarming and very fun and relaxing. A can't miss opportunity to laugh and relax in a public atmosphere.
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Pickleball or anything active such as hiking, biking or discovering hidden gems (activities) around the Cape Fear area. Always interested in learning the NC shag.
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Nice walk in the woods gives my dog a good walk , with a coffee after , if you play golf maybe 9 holes and a coffee
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Όπου υπάρχει θάλασσα! Να υπάρχει ρομαντισμός και να μπορείς να επικοινωνείς. Wherever there is sea!!! Romantic scenery and being able to communicate.
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how about home cooked dinner with a glass or wine.listening some music maybe a night walk on the beach.
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Good conversation, a nice glass of wine, and a sweet kiss good-bye. I'm in FL so a walk on the beach could also work.
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First date can be a causal meet up to see if we have a connection. Coffee, afternoon cocktail, something light and easy. If we feel a connection, let's plan a dinner in a place we can talk, an afternoon at the beach, take the ferry to Cozumel, or enjoy a local band.
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We could play pickleball, walk on the beach, go for a hike. We could ride bikes at the beach. Maybe go out to lunch or just a cup
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Some place where we could just get to know each other and see if there is a connection.
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"The Art of Deep Listening: A Dating Game-Changer"
One of the most overlooked yet transformative dating skills is deep listening. Rather than rehearsing your next reply, immerse yourself in your date’s world. Observe their passion points—do their eyes sparkle when they mention hiking or vintage films? Mirror their energy with affirming nods and follow-up questions ("What was the first concert you attended?").
Avoid the trap of monologuing or glancing at your phone. Instead, use the "2:1 rule": for every two sentences about yourself, ask one open-ended question. Notice how they describe past relationships—casual or poetic? These linguistic fingerprints reveal their emotional language.
Pro tip: Mirror their posture subtly (leaning in when they do) to build subconscious rapport. Remember, the goal isn’t to interrogate but to co-create a story where both voices feel heard.
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playing a golf round or ice cream. if you don't have any golf skills let me know and come up with a better date.
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Have a game of golf and a drink afterwards.
Good opportunity to have a chat and see if we get on together. Doesn't need to be any more complicated than that does it?
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Well perhaps first meet would entail a coffee/ beverage shop. Meet and greet. If things seem reasonable then I would enjoy a workout together date or pickleball date this might be fun. From there we could take the next steps.......together.
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Round of golf,maybe a cocktail after the round.you can hide very little in a round of golf,compatible, temperment.if there is a attraction a nice dinner.
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I think a trip to the arcade or we can let her hair down giggle and have fun like kids would be awesome. It also offers an opportunity to sit down and get a bite to eat.
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Engage in a fun, light-hearted activity that's perfect for breaking the ice. A card game over a bottle of wine or watching a game together would be a nice way to get it off!
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Going bowling would be fun or just having a casual fun night out watching the Gators play on tv out at Gators restaurant!
Also if you like to play a round of golf, I'd love that to be a fun first date!
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I just started playing pickleball and golf, both in my community.. I don't take it too seriously, but I enjoy being outside.
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An escape room. Where we will have to work together to solve puzzles and break out of a locked room. It's a fun way to see if we are on the same wavelength.
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I would enjoy a quiet coffee shop to get to know each other. Good conversation and no time table. For the first date, probably meet at the location.
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Dinner at a nice restaurant. a chat about who we are and see if any connection is made. I'm new to the dating scene, so please be nice and respectful.
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