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Gixxxxxx

Springboro, OH, USA

Meeting for coffee at a comfortable restaurant so we can talk and get to know each other. That would be my choice.
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PCxxxxxx

Panama City Beach, FL, USA

Coffee and Donuts/Breakfast on the beach in front of Thomas Donuts on Front Beach. If you know, you know!
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Toxxxxxx

Lawrenceville, GA, USA

First meet up a quiet location with few interruptions and good conversation. Introduce ourselves and speak about ourselves, interests, desires and outcomes. Second, assume we had a great talk, we can have dinner and drink and pursue out goals!
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Daxxxxxx

Manassas, VA, USA

Lets find a quiet place to have a nice conversation. Lets get to know each other. Lets not conducive an interview lol
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lMxxxxxx

Hopatcong, NJ, USA

I'd love to meet over an espresso and discuss anything and everything of interest. I'd want you to be comfortable in your surroundings.
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Emxxxxxx

Cape Coral, FL, USA

A cup of coffee at a local coffee house would be a good start. Or a cocktail if that strikes a better note.
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Moxxxxxx

Delray Beach, FL, USA

Relaxing atmosphere where we could have good conversations and getting to know each others and find out our plans for the future.
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HAxxxxxx

Reno, NV, USA

First date should be low pressure - a cup of coffee or a glass of wine to get to know each other. Or perhaps a walk in a park. The objective is to see if there's a match; if so, see what develops.
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Roxxxxxx

Fort Mill, SC, USA

Meet for coffee or lunch close to both of us. Then go for a relaxing walk in a park or go to a museum or gallery
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Faxxxxxx

New Lenox, IL, USA

Coffee, Chemistry & Good Vibes Let's grab a coffee or tea, share some laughs, and see if we click! I love great conversation, quick wit, a little playful banter, and someone who can make me laugh. I enjoy meeting interesting people who are confident, genuine, and know how to have fun. No pressure, no awkward expectations. Just good company, a little chemistry, and who knows where it might lead!
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Swxxxxxx

Fort Lauderdale, FL, USA

First meet maybe a cup of coffee at a cafe or a pizza at an Italian restaurant. Depends on how well we get along.
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Bexxxxxx

Saint Paul, MN, USA

A quiet place to talk get to know each other. To determine if this is a good match. Sometimes the best moments are
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maxxxxxx

Stockton, CA, USA

First dates should be a simple coffee date to establish whether a connection can exist. although we will both be nervous we can still assess if there is a chance at good conversation, and/or attraction. At the very least it’s always nice to meet new people whether we decide to leave it at a coffee chat or move into lunch or even more, has to first start with that first meeting.
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APxxxxxx

Angeles City, Central Luzon, PHL

Coffee or tea at a nice café , quiet enough to talk, easy to leave if it doesn't click or stay longer if it does. Light, low-pressure and perfect for getting to know each other.
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lixxxxxx

Hermosa Beach, CA, USA

My ideal first date would be a lovely brunch or coffee overlooking the ocean, followed by a relaxing walk along the beach. I enjoy good conversation, laughter, and getting to know someone naturally. It's not about how expensive the date is, but the connection, chemistry, and quality time we share. A little romance and a beautiful ocean view would make it even more special!
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scxxxxxx

Casper, WY, USA

Slide into a booth at River Smith's , downtown Lubbock, and watch the Red Raiders fight off Coach Morris and his Pistol Pete Cowboys in a college football game (or anybody else on the schedule). By halftime, you can slide out and then out the door or stay for the second half, we will both know by halftime what its going to be.
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Jexxxxxx

Covina, CA, USA

My idea of a perfect first date is something simple and relaxed, like meeting at a cozy coffee shop, enjoying a good cup of coffee, sharing a few laughs, and having a genuine conversation. No pressure, no expectations, and no awkward formalities. I'm simply looking to make a new friend and enjoy good company. If we connect and enjoy each other's company, wonderful! Sometimes the best friendships begin over a simple cup of coffee.
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daxxxxxx

Newport Beach, CA, USA

After having had several video calls, we could meet at a local Starbucks or a small, quiet diner to get to know each other better.
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Mixxxxxx

Vancouver, BC, CAN

How about we keep our first date casual? Not because we can't be adventuresome together... after all, I did tandem skydive with my son for his 30th BD... but quaint and homey might be an awesome way to say hi in person after some online conversations.
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wixxxxxx

Grayson, GA, USA

Coffee and conversation. If we hit it off, we can extend the date to something more. No matter the location, doing something where we interact and communicate is preferable over staring at a screen all night.
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