40-99 About men

  • View author's info Author Posted on Aug 09, 2013 at 01:00 PM


    What the heck?  i have had so many men contact me, who are about 55 years of age.  

    #1 - I ask them what they have in common with a 99 year old female?

    #2 -  They always ask me for personal e-mail address. 

    #3 -  Pictures of these guys are always so handsome, so when I ask for more photos (closeups), there are always delays.  

    #4-Profile. Usually indicates Masters Degree  in Engineering, however notes to me are completely broken English And full of grammatical errors.  

    #5 -  after asking for more info, these   guys (I think)  are gone from seniormatch match.i do believe, however, they are still on under a different name and profile.

    #6-     after baiting these guys, they  tell me they are working temporarily in Africa.  Profile says, however that they live here in the U.S. and are not willing to relocate, and that they are not traveling at this time.

    i pay quite a bit of money for this service and do not want all of my money going to turning away scammers.  If you ask me...these scammers are dangerous!

    when does senior match become accountable?  I realize i signed a disclaimer , but I think online dating is dangerous and people need to be extreemly careful!

    Members Only

    Follow - email me when people comment
  • 12Comments

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 22, 2019 at 02:30 PM


    I have reported obvious scammers , whoever monitors the Profiles are obviously not concerned about scammers, as I get a reply from them saying they have reviewed these prifles and find nothing wrong with them..so getting money from memberships on this site is more important than safety of their members.

    All I can say don;t bother reporting, just block a member if not compfortable with their questions.

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 22, 2019 at 02:29 PM


    I have reported obvious scammers , whoever monitors the Profiles are obviously not concerned about scammers, as I get a reply from them saying they have reviewed these prifles and find nothing wrong with them..so getting money from memberships on this site is more important than safety of their members.

    All I can say don;t bother reporting, just block a member if not compfortable with their questions.

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 22, 2019 at 01:25 PM


    I have reported obvious scammers , whoever monitors the Profiles are obviously not concerned about scammers, as I get a reply from them saying they have reviewed these prifles and find nothing wrong with them..so getting money from memberships on this site is more important than safety of their members.

    All I can say don;t bother reporting, just block a member if not compfortable with their questions.

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 17, 2019 at 09:57 AM


    let's face it ladies, there are scammers on both sides of the aisle.. i'm frequently contacted by young women.. lovely photos.. half my age at least.. from distant states.. willing to relocate.. makes me wonder why they're interested in an older guy like me.. it's a good thing i'm careful and cautious ;)

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 01, 2019 at 02:41 PM


    I agree totally with all your points. I was victim of a scammer recently. He was “Australian” worked in Engineering, very busy, traveling to Malaysia for a project (for 15 millions $) that I didn’t found information anywhere, and so and so. He was furious when I wrote to him with all the falls he did.

    i can imagine the quantity of women looking for someone to raise his kids and paying the rent, but men continue “informing” in the detail of what they are looking for, that they provide, that the first thing really matters is cuddle, kissing, and you know...

    sometimes I think, if you wants sex, why not search in others sites, really sexy? The word senior for me is not primary addressed to sex, also because from the 60 on, mostly are impotent, of course that with viagra they can help themselves, but it’s a temporary situation it’s  not natural.

  • View author's info Posted on Jul 12, 2019 at 07:59 PM


    I look at their profile and if they have nothing marked at all, no preference whatsoever, that is a red flag to me.  A scammer doesn't have time to put all that info in the profile, so if they haven't said a single thing, I usually skip over them.  If they reach out to me I block them and report them to the staff here.  

     

    If the pictures are too good to be true, probably not a real person.  And if they're super young and reaching out to me .. huge red flag!

  • View author's info Posted on Jan 08, 2019 at 10:35 PM


    if I am suspicious at all I try to ask questions that will prove to me they are not who they say they are.  Strange wording/spelling/punctuation but engineer living in your home town?  Ask them what part of town they live in.  If they don't answer it after you've asked twice, don't bother with them any more.

     

  • View author's info Posted on Jan 04, 2017 at 01:01 AM


    us men get scammers also the thing is that ALL dating sites are the same...full of BS i got some chick that looks beautiful sending me messages and than wants me to send her money in a moneygram and in reality this chick is a stinky nasty guy named bubba sitting naked behind a computer in wyoming somewhere hoping he can make a buck because he is to dam lazy to go get a job.

  • View author's info Posted on Oct 09, 2015 at 02:39 PM


    Signed up a few days ago but I can already identify with many of the comments.

  • View author's info Posted on Aug 20, 2014 at 12:44 AM


    I have found them to be building airports in Dubai...engineers, widowers, poor English (I will like to get to know you) are "in love" after one message, address me as "Pretty", claim to be US educated but have poor English so then claim to be born in Italy or Greece.  On the phone, they have a high voice and Nigerian accent and call gets quickly cut off.  Legitimate men from France have had no trouble phoning and Skyping me.  That way, I know exactly who they are.

  • View author's info Posted on Jun 20, 2014 at 01:31 AM


    Bit of a bind this, you see I am a widower wife passed on in 2006 and my late longtime partner passed away three months ago. I am really feeling the need for female company, but these scammers are scaring people off widowers. Actually there are women on here that are at the same game. I got stung seven years ago the mention of Africa, in particular Nigeria and Ghana are now like a red rag to me. 

    Members Only

  • View author's info Posted on Nov 17, 2013 at 04:17 AM


    I have complained several times about these scammers and have reported them. The scammers always seem to be widowers. This is unfortunate because I am now leery of all widowers!

Follow - email me when people comment