I think they are in a relationship and want a better partner but doesn't let the one he have go before he know what to get.......it is very cruel to the one they have to not let her go and find a better man.
and the opposite with women.
" you know what you have but not what you get....so hold in to the one you know until you find a better one "
Some of us are embarassed about looking for love online, and do not want some casual acquaintance blabbing it around to friends. A lot of people know my face. I have no problem sending photos via email, where it's a little less public. Once we click, it wont matter.
You got that right. I will not contact anybody that doesn't post a photo. I might be missing out but hey, if they are legit they can contact me and send me their photo. Scammers abound. I haven't met one on this site yet but boy have I met my number from other sites!!!! Some really do their research and it is hard to catch on to them. They are such a wasted of time. I feel sorry for the women who fall for them.
For people that fail to post a picture the thoughts that run through my mind is that they could be married and not want thier wife or husband to find thier picture on a dating site, they could have warrants out for thier arrest, Etc so on and so forth. If I don't see a picture I do not respond to any of thier messages.
Long time posted, I accidentally looked at it. (perhaps the writer is this comment does no more visit this site. ) Anyhow, to post some 21 pictures about myself seems to me a bit like narcissism. But I might be wrong...
I would tend to totally agree with you!! That's what I thought the minute I saw all of the male profiles with no picture, or worse still, a picture that is so small when you click on it you can't see what they look like even when you strain your eyesight!
Cappella, I also agree.... no picture request them. If you don't post you are not worth my contact. I am new and was very disappointed that there are no pictures of these lookers. What is up with that Men>>>>>
I have 1 simple rule. No pic = no response.I simply don't trust "no photos". Don't care about looks. I'm not a princess don't expect man to be Prince Charming , but I do expect honesty starting with photo.
So very well said.. a recent photo is so important for all on these dating sites. I've encountered some males emailing me a photo that was taken 10-15 years ago.. then meeting in person and you wonder what happened here???LOL just wanted to add this comment!
I have tried many sites and biggest beef is the women who get photos from model sites and use them - many times they aren't women but rather are men from nigeria setting up a scam. Also many women use pics that obviously don't match their age. A picture helps to establish if there might be some chemistry, clothes style, hair style/color, use of cosmetics etc all help to create a woman's personality.