I just found out the man that professed to love me, not want to see anyone else, doesn't THINK of anyone else, wants to be with me forever, blah, blah, blah, for FOUR YEARS - is using this site and all the other "Senior" sites to find dates. Does anyone else know of slime like this? It is one thing to be out there when you are single, but how many married men, or men that are in a "committed" relationship - are cheaters? I guess most people now have open relationsips! I should invest in the companies that make condomns - or the medical companies that treat VDs.
It takes all kinds and we don't know how we would act in some situations really. I had a man interested in me and he was straight up and honest that he was married - his wife had a terminal illness and he wanted someone he could talk to, feel good with and just forget his daily grind. He had no intention of leaving her and wanted to make no promises - so he was honest from the get go.
As that was not what I was looking for, I declined but, I was tempted, let me tell you. He was a really lovely guy but I know myself and knew I couldn't go down that path.
For men who just cheat because they want to, they are childish, never grown up and don't understand how 'big people' do things, ie., whatever you do has consequences, maybe not today but sooner or later so beware!
My problem does not seem to be meeting cheaters, it's being contacted by scammers! Not on this site yet. I just joined as I read this site was rated well. POF and HINGE, yuck!!!! I did meet a few real men from POF, but HINGE, nothing but scammers. Sigh, so discouraging. I'm hoping I have better luck on here.
This Forum is of tremendous value to men who have not dated in quite awhile. (esp. widowed) Albeit there is an identity crisis when the loss of a mate and now your out there searching or seeing for the first time what women seek want today is quite unnerving. I for one, have an extensive background in business, corp life, medical education, finance, and toys but stymied in approaching a woman for the purpose of dating. Renaissance, Jack of all trades, a Sleepless in Seattle type of movie yet reality there are alot of guys not sharks but down to earth, have no idea how to date or even meet because the internet is not old school. A forum is a tool that allows a good intro to this new type of dating. Personally, I can speak to a group, instruck, demonstrate methods of applications but I have no idea how to approach you for a date. So whether I agree or not about all the above, the approach is enlightening.
Do us all a favor and send us your way to move methodically. There are a lot of New people on this site that could use your advice. I think I am men-wise enough to pick them out pretty quick, but ya never know!
nathing new . i get one man in this site for one year i was dating to him and i am descovery the man is sex addiction watch porno evryday do masturbation and whem i am not near call prostitutes spend all the money in that . call cragslist girls at home now after all . i am emotional suffer i see him again here . and i really feel fear that man will do again becouse i ask why doing that to me and the answer was cant be with only one woman i am have emotional problem and i have to sleep with more tham one . but now ladys if you read the profile that man dont say nathing like that . the truth is hi write about moral and dignity . nathing i am in shock
I guess I met the exception for he is gentlemanly, kind, and has not lied about any aspect of his life. When we are together he is a perfect gentleman and we both agree we just want friendship and we are getting along fine. Ladies they are out there so be careful and don't get in a hurry.
There is nothing more disgusting than a man and or women seek to date when married. Apparently they have a total lack of morals and lack of total respect to their spouses and children. This as well as person dating a married person knowingly date as is adultery. The viewpoint of parties knowly committing such an act is on of desperation, dishonesty and causing such drama.
I am the very demon you speak of. For me it's a necessary evil. I make no excuses. I am honest and upfront about my daliences. Life is complicated and there are needs that need to be met. In all other aspects of my life, I am honest and decent. We all have flaws. Changing up partners from time to time is mine. I know most of you (90% - men inculded) find this behaviour abhorent. It's the 10% that want great intimacy with no string attached I seek.
Ask lots of questions, alway keep your emotions in tact, don't seem desperate and if your moving forward in the relationship, ask to visit him at his home, call him at different hours. If he makes excuses why he can't see you and runs late or has to go home early. If he makes you feel uncomfortable move on, he wasn't worth you.
Yes, yes, and yes!!! The poser, is like the Lock Nest monster, it rears it's ugly head more than you think!!! That's why the female should be an aggressor and not passive for fear of becoming a victim of such player's... Make your demands known and draw your line. Fear not as the weak will be left down trodden. I've not been taken as I move methodically with every interaction, fretting out the deviant power move, and go forth with the satisfaction that I called them out on their game card before they've gotten any satisfaction of being able to play it! Hmmmmmmm, satisfaction can be rewarding when you kick a would be predator to the curb. No broken heart here, ;).
There are all kinds out there, so get witty and do your research. I've had guy's try to get me to give them money, try to sexually take advantage, and just plain lie and try to make you think their someone, their not!!! I've yet to meet a straight forward person with an ounce of honesty so far on any dating sight period!!! I'm not trying to say the honest guy's aren't out there, their just few and far in between!!!