I so wish I could experience the special love many feel and have. My friend that I speak of on here has that special love for some reason or another. We are bestest of friends, but I still don't understand her feelings for the guy she met on this website. Is it possible for her to rekindle and reconnect the love she had with this guy or has it gone down the tubes? I wonder what the percentage is for guys and gals to talk again and find each other once again. For never meeting the guy face to face, she still has a hang up over him. She still keeps his picture in her billfold and on her cell phone...keeps his number just in case. I so wish I could help her by telling her he has found someone else or something, but right now don't think it would do any good. She will call me crying, or laughing at things he said to her,and still wishing he would talk to her and come home from abroad. Please...anyone, do you have any advice I could give her? She won't give me his email to contact him or I would email him just for the sake of it.
I so wish I could experience the special love many feel and have. My friend that I speak of on here has that special love for some reason or another. We are bestest of friends, but I still don't understand her feelings for the guy she met on this website. Is it possible for her to rekindle and reconnect the love she had with this guy or has it gone down the tubes? I wonder what the percentage is for guys and gals to talk again and find each other once again. For never meeting the guy face to face, she still has a hang up over him. She still keeps his picture in her billfold and on her cell phone...keeps his number just in case. I so wish I could help her by telling her he has found someone else or something, but right now don't think it would do any good. She will call me crying, or laughing at things he said to her,and still wishing he would talk to her and come home from abroad. Please...anyone, do you have any advice I could give her? She won't give me his email to contact him or I would email him just for the sake of it.
Silverwolf...thank you for saying what you did. I showed it to my friend and she understood exactly what you said. You know tho, she says she still has deep feelings for the online fellow, and I believe that if he were to appear to her and be honest, she would follow him anywhere. She fell so deeply for him too quickly in my opinion, but she said real love stays within the heart. I even asked her if he was trying to use her for a bank...lol. Anyway, I do hope that time will help her.
Silverwolf...thank you for saying what you did. I showed it to my friend and she understood exactly what you said. You know tho, she says she still has deep feelings for the online fellow, and I believe that if he were to appear to her and be honest, she would follow him anywhere. She fell so deeply for him too quickly in my opinion, but she said real love stays within the heart. I even asked her if he was trying to use her for a bank...lol. Anyway, I do hope that time will help her.
My heart goes out to your friend,I myself found myself falling for a fellow in such a way that although his feelings were false I couldnt see it.I had painted him into what I dreamed he was,not the reality.It has taken me two yrs to get over it,I guess with some ppl you always love them a bit still,but theres a time to move on.
My heart goes out to your friend,I myself found myself falling for a fellow in such a way that although his feelings were false I couldnt see it.I had painted him into what I dreamed he was,not the reality.It has taken me two yrs to get over it,I guess with some ppl you always love them a bit still,but theres a time to move on.
Thank you ladies for your comments! I guess the reason my friend is so down is that because we both know 9 ladies locally who have had luck online, but she has to be the one who bounced. She does go to church, volunteers time for the elderly, she works 5 days aweek, belongs to a couple organizations, so it isn't like she doesn't get out and meet people. She tells me that when you really love someone, that love doesn't change overnight. Okay, I can understand what she is saying, but believe me she is crushed inside, and you would really never know it as she smiles all the time. Guess I'm the one she lets down to. She has tried trying to just make friends online, and told me yesterday she had been woo-ed 3 more times with people she calls fake. I, myself, haven't been lucky enough to find someone close to me to go with, nor have I even found a friend except those I read about on the blogs. I get out all the time and meet new people and that helps me constantly.
Thank you ladies for your comments! I guess the reason my friend is so down is that because we both know 9 ladies locally who have had luck online, but she has to be the one who bounced. She does go to church, volunteers time for the elderly, she works 5 days aweek, belongs to a couple organizations, so it isn't like she doesn't get out and meet people. She tells me that when you really love someone, that love doesn't change overnight. Okay, I can understand what she is saying, but believe me she is crushed inside, and you would really never know it as she smiles all the time. Guess I'm the one she lets down to. She has tried trying to just make friends online, and told me yesterday she had been woo-ed 3 more times with people she calls fake. I, myself, haven't been lucky enough to find someone close to me to go with, nor have I even found a friend except those I read about on the blogs. I get out all the time and meet new people and that helps me constantly.
Try to get your friend to understand the risk of finding someone on a place like the internet...So many, many cases fall flat or never become reality.
Perhaps if your friend went to places where she lives that would give her an opportunity to meet people in real life..like church, volunteer clubs/organizations, special interests clubs, sport events, etc.
Try to get your friend to understand the risk of finding someone on a place like the internet...So many, many cases fall flat or never become reality.
Perhaps if your friend went to places where she lives that would give her an opportunity to meet people in real life..like church, volunteer clubs/organizations, special interests clubs, sport events, etc.
She needs to see a therapist and figure out why she would hang onto a fantasy. It seems very codependent (I hate throwing that word around, but this seems so classic) There are so many people who need love and support in the world..she could volunteer and give your love away to people who really need it and find herself at the same time.
She needs to see a therapist and figure out why she would hang onto a fantasy. It seems very codependent (I hate throwing that word around, but this seems so classic) There are so many people who need love and support in the world..she could volunteer and give your love away to people who really need it and find herself at the same time.
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